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TessRb 64F
2590 posts
11/6/2010 6:30 pm

Last Read:
12/5/2010 8:14 am

Goodbye to love...

Growing in the 70's and listening to the Carpenters. Their song was either happy or sad. Basically sad always. Karen was fighting deep inside of being anorexic/bulimia??? She really thought she was fat. In reality skinny. Unhappiness to accept that fact she was not fat at all. This song is a dedication to all the Carpenters fan out there. The dis-illusionment of love. My song for the day...

I'll say goodbye to love
No one ever cared if I should live or die
Time and time again the chance for love
has passed me by
And all I know of love
is how to live without it
I just can't seem to find it.

So I've made my mind up I must live
my life alone
And though it's not the easy way
I guess I've always known
I'd say goodbye to love.

There are no tomorrows for this heart of mine
Surely time will lose these bitter memories

And I'll find that there is someone to believe in
And to live for something I could live for.

All the years of useless search
Have finally reached an end
Loneliness and empty days will be my
only friend
>From this day love is forgotten
I'll go on as best I can.

What lies in the future
is a mystery to us all
No one can predict the wheel of fortune
as it falls
There may come a time when I will see that
I've been wrong
But for now this is my song.

And it's goodbye to love

I'll say goodbye to love.

(image)


Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/6/2010 9:04 pm

    Quoting  :

Justine,

That's how long ago i said goodbye too. My gosh we have similar life. Just too coincidental!!! So, gonna cry with you. Too painful!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/6/2010 9:06 pm

    Quoting  :

Justine,

Today proved that to me. Just when every thing is peachy and nice. I get hit with the bomb again. See i've stopped searching. And hope they find me. Gave it a chance, and then just useless. Like it's all fake and not real anymore. Today is the end for me...

Have a blessed Sunday.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

11/7/2010 3:58 am

    Quoting  :

Migz, you mean, you've been waiting for love with OPEN ARMS AND LEGS?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/7/2010 3:59 am

I said Goodbye to love too, for more than 11 years, but, my heart said hello loneliness....

Just call me ELZ


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 48F
4829 posts
11/7/2010 4:20 am

i have glasses. can i be a sister too?

.. been disenchanted too but now i find that i can choose friendship instead and found that it is a better deal. remember when a man courts you? you get more of everything than when you say 'i do'. that's the irony of it.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 5:53 am

    Quoting  :

Bro,

Happy Sunday to you!!! Is that right to part and meet all over again. The same expectation to be hurt again??? I think i'll give it a rest. And leave it to HIM. The one and only giver of that perfect love...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 5:55 am

    Quoting  :

Sis,

You truly have the right attitude!!! Positive. To accept love whenever it comes what may. Love this tune. Enjoy your Sunday and happiness always

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 5:57 am

    Quoting  :

Justine,

We are all sisters/friends here. We share our heartaches and happiness. What more can anyone ask. Also, the support of cheering one up when one is down. Truly remarkable.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 6:00 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Migz, you mean, you've been waiting for love with OPEN ARMS AND LEGS?
Good morning Elz!!!

This cracks me up. Di ba naman it comes when love arrives open arms, etc. Thank you for making me laugh this morning. Makes up for the emptiness and let down again yesterday...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 6:02 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    I said Goodbye to love too, for more than 11 years, but, my heart said hello loneliness....
Elz,

Yes, true we might not have the love of our life. But, the love of friends and family. Balance it a bit. It's just not our time yet. For me when that time comes will share it with everyone...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 6:05 am

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    i have glasses. can i be a sister too?

    .. been disenchanted too but now i find that i can choose friendship instead and found that it is a better deal. remember when a man courts you? you get more of everything than when you say 'i do'. that's the irony of it.
Sis,

We all are sisters here. There's a bond between us all the heartache and sacrifice we made in our marriage and for our children. Sharing the good as well as the bad. Empathy of really knowing what we been through. Changes of love...

Have a wonderful Sunday everyon!!! Rainy day today here in Cali.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 7:42 am

    Quoting  :

Sis,

totally agree!!! haahhahahaa

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2010 11:00 am

    Quoting  :

Sis,

I often wonder why bother to have any man in my life. Because my marriage should have been the greatest lesson in my life. But, this hopeful dreaming of my prince charming. Oh, well that's how the cookie crumbles....

Hope you're having a gread Sunday!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

11/7/2010 8:33 pm

    Quoting  :

Hey! Smiley, dahlen...! Howdy?

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/8/2010 4:49 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Hey! Smiley, dahlen...! Howdy?
Elz,

Good morning!!! I've seen Mindy's handle visit. But, why is her post invisible and you quoted hers??? Weird stuff going on. Parang now u see it now u don't??? Everyone have a terrific week!!! Monday blues again...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


coxkevin 42M

11/8/2010 6:15 am

    Quoting  :

Me too!! I'm welcoming new new loves... ( Msg to jenn if she reads my comment :joke only )


eb1209

11/8/2010 7:29 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    Good morning!!! I've seen Mindy's handle visit. But, why is her post invisible and you quoted hers??? Weird stuff going on. Parang now u see it now u don't??? Everyone have a terrific week!!! Monday blues again...
FFF is weird and acting up again...Only gold see gold posts at times...Hayz! but the good thing is, she's just around the corner.. She said, she is having a hard time logging on with her handle lately, and it happened to me in Camiguin internet cafe1 too! I didn't see my posts on the day that I wrote them, but on the following day pa... I believe, it's really the server...Specially, MOZILLA...

Just call me ELZ


Bebong2010 56F

11/8/2010 4:51 pm

tess
my other blog got deleted when i tried to turn off my account
and when i come to check if i can still log in
i can't
had to send them email and begged to open my account again
they sent me a new code id and more tra la la gosh i thought it's so simple turning off profiles
anyway have a fantastic rest of the week

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/8/2010 5:46 pm

    Quoting  :

Sis,

My gosh i thought i was going nuts always dreaming and all. Just now stopped dreaming. But, if that's what an insane person do. Ok, i'll keep dreaming big time.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/8/2010 5:49 pm

    Quoting coxkevin:
    Me too!! I'm welcoming new new loves... ( Msg to jenn if she reads my comment :joke only )
Raj,

Just welcome all of Jenn's love for you!!! She's a keeper. Remember to takes lots of pictures when the day comes and share with us here. God bless you both abundantly with love and happiness.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/8/2010 5:52 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    FFF is weird and acting up again...Only gold see gold posts at times...Hayz! but the good thing is, she's just around the corner.. She said, she is having a hard time logging on with her handle lately, and it happened to me in Camiguin internet cafe1 too! I didn't see my posts on the day that I wrote them, but on the following day pa... I believe, it's really the server...Specially, MOZILLA...
Elz,

Good evening!!! Thank God thought i was going blind on this end. Love all the pics of the wedding so far. Erna is so sweet and lovely. Weddings make me teary eyes at the vows part. Just so beautiful.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/8/2010 5:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Jeff,

Same here. Just makes me cry every time i remember. Try not too but can't help it. Di ba everyone sacrifice and do all they can to make it work. And at the end it couldn't be saved...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/8/2010 5:59 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    tess
    my other blog got deleted when i tried to turn off my account
    and when i come to check if i can still log in
    i can't
    had to send them email and begged to open my account again
    they sent me a new code id and more tra la la gosh i thought it's so simple turning off profiles
    anyway have a fantastic rest of the week
Bebs,

Atleast it's still you. One and only "Bebong"!!! Mine had to have drastice make overs the handles i mean. And it was like totally different each time. Adjusting to the new name. Passage of time...

Have a great week and enjoy!!!

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


jane82 110F

11/9/2010 4:52 am

Carpenters
how are you today?



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/9/2010 10:16 pm

    Quoting  :

sis,

Love them dearly when growing up. I've said goodbye countless times. Just too tired...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...