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eb1209
23211 posts
12/7/2010 4:40 pm
Exactly....



Exactly, what do MEN look for in a relationship these days? Are they after physical looks? Youth? Financial security? or plain companionship? What's interesting to know is that the MEN of today are no longer as extravagant as before, although DOM's may still pamper their super young and sexy women. However, a growing number of women at any age, "spend money" on their men on their dates, and buy them clothes, or pay for their vacations. Long time ago, only matrons have that reputation, but not anymore! I believe, one of the reasons this is happening is that "most" women "bribe" their men into loving them and staying with them by pampering them with love, gifts, all-inclusive of sexual intimacy to feed their fantasies. Still, there is NO guarantee that these men will not leave them.

So, exactly, what are the traits and characteristics of women, most men are looking for?

You don't have to be a man to answer this question.


Just call me ELZ


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 48F
4829 posts
12/7/2010 5:51 pm

elz.. a sane person who has a career and earning his/her own keep would not 'sell' his/her attention and time to another person and most specially have intimate relations with the person without feeling something special. would you?

yes, there is no guarantee of love for even the most lovestruck couples in the world but then that's how the cookie crumbles!


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
12/7/2010 6:55 pm

Elz,

No guarantee. All one can do is enjoy the ride and be happy. Then cry like a river after it's all said and done. You look super cute here. I bet those men there were admiring you, huh...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

12/7/2010 7:49 pm

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    elz.. a sane person who has a career and earning his/her own keep would not 'sell' his/her attention and time to another person and most specially have intimate relations with the person without feeling something special. would you?

    yes, there is no guarantee of love for even the most lovestruck couples in the world but then that's how the cookie crumbles!
Bwahahahah! But, Honey, indeed, there are MEN who are "selling" their affection by mostly "taking", rather than giving...I don't like that ..I can go 50-50% after a while, but me being a sugar mommy? No way!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2010 7:52 pm

And regarding cookies, mine had been spared for a while. Thank God for cobwebs...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2010 7:55 pm

    Quoting  :

GAMBLE, it is..Which reminds me Please excuse my french, but "some women" really have to BET their A$$ off to stay in the game...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2010 7:57 pm

    Quoting  :

Huh? I am not sure if I am getting you right Jo, when you say that you want to settle for someone with some "benefits" ..Isn't that a package deal? (My bad! )

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2010 8:00 pm

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    No guarantee. All one can do is enjoy the ride and be happy. Then cry like a river after it's all said and done. You look super cute here. I bet those men there were admiring you, huh...
Tess, I don't wanna cry like a river......I know there is no guarantee whatsoever, but, can't we haggle for a little bit? ..Oh, thanks for the compliment..., The wind blew and my dress ballooned like I was going to fly away...Lolz!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/7/2010 8:05 pm

I'm waiting to read from MEN... You see, we write something for them to voice their true opinion or feelings regarding important matters...It's like saying: " MEN do want something, but they just don't know what it is, and they don't care to find out...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:11 am

    Quoting  :

Psssst! Psssst! Psssst!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:15 am

    Quoting  :

Smiley, Dahlen! First, let me congratulate you since your post is out and visible..., Secondly, you can always write honest things that men usually deny...but I know now "exactly" what you are driving at...SEX!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:17 am

    Quoting  :

Hahahahaha! Dahlen~! It is now changed to "Pssst!"....If you only know...the obsession is back...at least, 3 times a day..Go figure!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:21 am

    Quoting  :

Ugggggghhhhhhh! That's nicely written MAD_die.......If only you were my age, I will apply as your GF..., but seriously speaking, you are one of those men who knows what to look for in a woman...Ooops! I'm sure, you also want a woman with a very good sense of humor, right? ...Happy Holidays, MAD_die!

Just call me ELZ


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 48F
4829 posts
12/8/2010 4:34 am

mad baby.. you're the man i'm looking for. where do i pick you up?


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:36 pm

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    mad baby.. you're the man i'm looking for. where do i pick you up?
HoNeY, I kinda SeNsEd that MAD_die was referring to you...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:38 pm

    Quoting  :

Now, this sounds very mature, and ideal...Thanks, Incan...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:38 pm

    Quoting  :

You see?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:39 pm

    Quoting  :

Ehem!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 3:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Huh? You mean to say, I still have a chance?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 6:40 pm

    Quoting  :

Baby, na-DENIED din ba ang post mo? It happened to me at my ROXY's blog...I have more than 10 comments that were denied...Hayz!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 6:42 pm

    Quoting  :

Hahahahhaha! you are actually giving him that attention he is "craving for", Smiley, my dahlen` and he is sssssoooooooooo HAPPY!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 6:44 pm

    Quoting  :

You have NO idea...I receive this Psssssst text messages 4-6 times a day...if you can call that "text stalking", then, it is! ...But who said that Naval people are always gentlemen?

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/8/2010 6:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Hahahahaha! ..Be careful, Smiley! Since we are calling each other Dahlen`...We might be birds of same feather...and thankfully, we don't f_ _ ck together! ...Maybe, I am GAY too?

Just call me ELZ


jean_1000 47F

12/8/2010 9:39 pm

no guarantee for sure...

love is the greatest gift of all


eb1209

12/9/2010 3:19 am

    Quoting  :

OP KORS! Pssssst!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

12/9/2010 3:20 am

That is very true, Jeanny!

Just call me ELZ