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eb1209
23211 posts
11/9/2010 1:25 am
Why Do You Hate Me?



...Is it because I speak my mind and heart out?...Is it because I am very transparent?...Is it because you think I "brag" about myself, my family, and my loved ones?...Or is it because you couldn't stand the fact that I am so REAL and you're not? You abhor the whole idea of me, being able to fearlessly associate and meet some members here in the real world, because you couldn't and wouldn't...Life is a matter of choices. We probably are both lonely, but I reach out, you don't...Why? Because, you don't know how to love and truly respect others and maybe even yourself...Love begets love. You reap what you sow. And even if at times, the love and respect I give to others are not reciprocated, I do not find that as a major loss, because it's theirs...I will not leave this world without exploring every opportunity to share kindness, the very least. For wealth does not always come in the form of monetary and material things...If I have the love of my family and friends, I am RICH...It's a simple investment, but it is PRICELESS.


Just call me ELZ


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 48F
4829 posts
11/9/2010 4:03 am

elz empty your mind and heart of things that make you miserable. you cannot control what other people think or do but you can control your reaction to it. look for something funny about the whole situation instead. be happy girl!


jane82 110F

11/9/2010 4:30 am

Never mind the haters.
They'll always be more who will love you for you.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


Bebong2010 56F

11/9/2010 5:44 am

darling
be who you are and ignore the negas
like you said you are blessed in all aspects of life
so why bother?

only dead fish go with the flow ~ JolieLaide


eb1209

11/9/2010 6:28 am

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    elz empty your mind and heart of things that make you miserable. you cannot control what other people think or do but you can control your reaction to it. look for something funny about the whole situation instead. be happy girl!
Honey, sometimes, it's just sending the message across, and so far, I think I am successful. Thanks for the blogs. People are quick to judge that sometimes, they forget that not everyone is alike...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 6:30 am

    Quoting jane82:
    Never mind the haters.
    They'll always be more who will love you for you.
More than 5 years of blogging, Janey, I think I've shown my versatility, but there are still those who even take time to ridicule, thinking, I am hungry for the limelight..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 6:32 am

    Quoting  :

Two things, Baby...Insecurity maybe a sign of envy, and there are those who pretend to like you, but are thinking evil of you.

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 6:35 am

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    darling
    be who you are and ignore the negas
    like you said you are blessed in all aspects of life
    so why bother?
Bebz, sweetie, life is such that we need to remind others to mind their own business....because I am mindful of my own..Take care!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 6:36 am

Hate mails are back, and are now thrashed...

Just call me ELZ


jean_1000 47F

11/9/2010 6:39 am

don't worry too much about others...

love is the greatest gift of all


__pinklion__ 44F

11/9/2010 7:15 am

They don't hate, they ENVY you...


eb1209

11/9/2010 9:33 am

    Quoting jean_1000:
    don't worry too much about others...
Hello, Jeanny! ...At times, we cannot ignore anymore..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 9:34 am

My dear, I am no better than anyone of you here...But thanks for gracing my blog...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 12:21 pm

    Quoting  :

No, Antonio...You're better off the "kind" person that you seemingly are, right now...Had you been in the beginning, maybe things are different...But, what matters now, is that you are HAPPY...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 5:55 pm

    Quoting  :

Thank you, Jo. Likewise. To me, there is no point in playing games and beating around the bush. I call round, round, and square, square. I do not speak of any profanities, and if I do, that would be the day that I totally lose my cool. There are always strong but appropriate ways to address issues. What comes to mind, I say and write, with no reference to any articles or by the book. I love meeting the "few selected" people that I consider friends here, and yes, you are one of them. I believe in the saying that goes: "Tell me who your friends are, and I'll tell you who you are!"...

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/9/2010 7:00 pm

    Quoting  :

Smiley, Dahlen`, where have you been? We miss you here...Can't wait to read your new GREEN blog, like you said. . Neways, I ven't when I feel that my chest is getting tight, because I don't wanna die ugly.., Err, I'd like to be "physical" at times when I feel it's the best way to express anger, but no punching bag with the picture of the enemy here..No voodoo dolls either, and I don't know the rituals anyway Oh well, if people will die of envy, Shheeeeessshh! I guess, all the cemeteries are full by now... wrinkols? they already have it ahead of me...

Just call me ELZ


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/9/2010 10:35 pm

Elz,

You are a wonderful person. Everyone of us here loves you. For me i would rather think about the folks that love me. The haters if that's what makes them happy be it. Not gonna waste time worrying. Enjoy yourself always...

Gosh, i thought i wasn't gonna be on tonite coz got hit w/ a virus this morning opening emails.

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


eb1209

11/10/2010 7:06 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Elz,

    You are a wonderful person. Everyone of us here loves you. For me i would rather think about the folks that love me. The haters if that's what makes them happy be it. Not gonna waste time worrying. Enjoy yourself always...

    Gosh, i thought i wasn't gonna be on tonite coz got hit w/ a virus this morning opening emails.
Thanks, Tess...I appreciate your friendship...You are one person who always have something good to say to all of us here...Have a great day!

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/10/2010 3:22 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks, Bestest friend...I know how to take care of my loneliness, and selected FFF members have been very important in my life and have made it easier for me to deal with loneliness...You are one of them..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/11/2010 7:00 pm

    Quoting  :

Well, now that you mentioned it...let me tell you just how much you can be a pain in my behind at times..

Just call me ELZ


eb1209

11/13/2010 8:43 pm

    Quoting  :

Muchas gracias, mi amigo, Dan! You have a great weekend too!

Just call me ELZ