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THE MANY FACETS OF ME
 


“The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be”



“Welcome every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as another special gift from your Creator, another golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self-starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today will never happen again. Don't waste it with a false start or no start at all. You were not born to fail.”



“Whenever you make a mistake or get knocked down by life, don't look back at it too long. Mistakes are life's way of teaching you. Your capacity for occasional blunders is inseparable from your capacity to reach your goals. No one wins them all, and your failures, when they happen, are just part of your growth. Shake off your blunders. How will you know your limits without an occasional failure? Never quit. Your turn will come.”



“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is... suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with”

quotes by: O.Mandino,M.Pagna,& G.Anderson

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THE DAY AFTER THE NIGHTMARE Feb 2, 2007 8:28 pm
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..(the phone rings)
P: " Hello!...what a surprise! you are actually calling me?"
E: " Well, I had this bad dream last night, and I was so scared, so I thought, I'd check on you."
P: " what bad dream?"
E: " Nothing! I just wanna convince myself that you're still there."
P: " What's wrong Baby?"
E: " Uhhmm! nothing really...I feel a lot better now, knowing that you're still around"
P: "Baby, you're freaking me out! what is it?"
E: "It's okay, I'm okay now."
P: "Well, it's okay for you, but I still don't get it..First, you don't usually initiate the call, so, there must be something that I need to know."
E: " Well, then, from now on, I'll initiate the call from time to time."
P: "Wow!...that's something new ha?..If that's the case, I think, you should have bad dreams all the time...hahahahaha!"
E: "You're crazy!...I dunno, I guess, I just want you to be there for me all the time."
P: "Baby, I do not want to make promises I cannot keep. I can only assure you that each day, I can only do the best that I can be..Tomorrow has no guarantee. And the same thing I expect from you. One day, you might decide not to be my special friend anymore.. and I don't wanna get hurt."
E: "I dunno, well, yeah, I guess..I know, I know.. but I just wanna tell you now how much I appreciate you."
P: " Wow! finally!"
E: " what do you mean finally? I always appreciate you!"
P: " Yeah, but you say it more meaningfully after a nightmare ha?"
E: " Liar, you!..that's not true!..Oh, okay, I gotta let you go now...this is not the usual time that we talk...I just wanna make sure, you're there...BYE!"
P: "Wait a minute, just like that?"
E: " Like that what?"
P: "Just BYE?"
E: "Duhhh!"
P: "Bye Baby!"
E: " Bye!"
P: " NO! Bye Baby!"
E: " Bye!"
P: "I said, Bye Baby!"
E: " Okay!..Bye Baby!"
P: " Now, that's more like it..Muwah!"
E: "hhhhmmm!" (click)
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THE TRUE GEM STORY: My Version Feb 2, 2007 4:39 am
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Here's the story of 2 brothers who were searching for jewelries: They wanted to buy rings.

They both went to the auction and were amazed at the collections that were up for grabs and to the highest bidder. The older brother was so smitten by one precious item: the glittering DIAMOND, which was delicately displayed for everyone to see and desire. He had to have it!...So, he bid all his savings and won..

The younger brother went on, and found an antique GOLD that was left AS IS, WHERE IS...He saw it dusty, the box was torn, and was placed in one corner where no one would even notice. Outside the box, there was a note saying: " Bid, if you must. By the end of the auction, if there is no taker, see the auctioneer." His eyes kept on staring at the gold, and saw how beautiful and unique the design was, and the more he stared at it, the desire to have it grew more intense, and yet, no taker. Needless to say, by the end of the day, the auctioneer gave it to him for a minimal fee.

The elder brother mocked him for his choice, but he was unaffected. He went on, cleaned, and polished his unique possession for hours...Lo and behold!..He saw the beauty of the gem that was never foretold!

The following day, wearing their rings, both brothers went to each his own and worked. The elder one flaunted his precious gem for everyone to see and envy. Then, it was time to wash his hands at the lavatory, where he decided NOT to wet his ring and placed it on top, but he left in a hurry!...Minutes had passed until his discovery. He ran with all his might, but too late, someone took it away! Now, his life is full of misery.

The younger brother never removed the ring from his finger. He ate, worked, washed his hands, took a bath, slept and woke up with it, all the time. When it got dirty, he'd clean it again, and enjoy its beauty that no one ever cared to see!

WILL ANYONE PLEASE TELL ME THE Moral OF THE STORY?

original article by: eb1209
02/02/07
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PLEASE SPARE ME...I'm just a simple woman Jan 30, 2007 4:38 pm
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..Why all of a sudden, I feel that I am being watched?, that I am being spied on, that I am under surveillance?

..I am not a threat to anyone, I am not as young and pretty, I don't have the powerful words that can conquer men's fantasies. I don't have the capability of attracting the rich and the elite...

..I am just an ordinary woman, simple and sometimes silly. What you see is the real me. I don't pretend to be someone I am not, so please, just don't sweat the small stuff.

..Believe in your heart, that I won't touch anything that is not mine, so calm your nerves, you'll just be fine. I promise you, I'll not be in your way. I am secure enough that my own gift of love is on its way.
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LET IT GO! Jan 30, 2007 10:39 am
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By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you:
let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving
you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to
you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never
tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest
that they were not for

us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with
us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not
joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means
that their part in the story
is over And you've got

to know when people's part
in your story is over so that you don't keep
trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over... Let me tell you
something. I've got
the gift of good-bye. It's
the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in
good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm
faithful, and I know
whatever God means for me to
have He'll give it to me. And
if it takes too
much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong
to you and was
never intended for your life,

then you need to........

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......
LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and

see your worth.....

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ........

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction.....

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude.........

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take
you to a new level
in Him......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship.......

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves.....

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed .........

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself
and God is saying
"take your hands off of it,"
then you need
to......

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past. Forget the former things.
GOD is doing a
new thing for 2007!!!

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left ..
think about it, and then .

LET IT GO!!!
__________________________________________________
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I CANNOT AFFORD TO LOSE YOU! Jan 30, 2007 5:01 am
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..I got up scared this morning, I had a bad dream.
..In it, I saw you walking away from me.
..You did not even see me chasing you, hoping
to say my goodbye.
..And then I woke up with tears welling my face.
..Gosh! I didn't realize how much you mean to me
until now. And I thank God, it was just a dream.
..NO! don't go!..don't leave me! I don't want
you to go! I cannot afford to lose you.
..You're the only one that's left, everyone else
broke their promises...They said that they'll be
there for me, through good times and bad.
..They lied!...once their roads get rosier, they
are gone with the wind, their wings flapping
so fast, and they never looked back.
..Please stay with me, hold my hand, squeeze it
tightly, don't let go.
..Walk with me when the roads ahead are steady.
..Walk with me when the roads ahead are rocky.
..Walk with me when the roads ahead are rosey.
..It doesn't matter just what kind of road I am
treading...I need you to be there with me.
..There had been too many potholes, narrow roads,
junctions and dead ends,
..But I wasn't scared to walk, because you were
there with me every step of the way.
..Maybe, my dream was sending me a message,
and now, I'm letting you know..THAT YOU MEAN SO
MUCH TO ME, PLEASE DON'T GO!
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KAILANGAN KITA Jan 25, 2007 9:13 pm
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Kailangan kita,
Bakit kailangan kita?
Bakit uhaw sa hamog, ang bulaklak sa tuwina?

Bakit ang awit, ay kailangan ang titik?
Na kailangan ang himig,
Na kailangan ang tinig....

Kailangan kita,
Kung gaano'y di ko alam,
Basta't kailangan kita,
Magpakailan pa man....

Sakali sinta, ako'y lisanin mo na,
Puso ko ma't kaluluwa,
Ay kinakailangan pa!
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WOW!...sarap kantahin..damang-dama ko talaga ang bawat kataga ng awit na ito...Sana, may paghahandugan na ako nito sa lalong madaling panahon...Kailan kaya yun?
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GENTLEWIND2006: (EDISON) THE MAN BEHIND THE SCENE Jan 24, 2007 7:03 pm
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To my PLF family:

As promised, here's the close up picture of my friend EDISON from Laguna...He's the one who's posting on my thread: LET YOUR HEART SPEAK AND BE HEARD...Just to prove to you that he is not a GHOST!...This is as close as he can get...under the blinding rays of sunlight...

OKAY, LADIES AND GENTLEMEN! I FULFILLED MY PROMISE..DOESN'T HE LOOK LIKE LITO LAPID HERE? YEAH?

What have you to say?
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I WISH...... Jan 23, 2007 6:11 am
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... we talk to each other face to face,

... you're here and not on the cyberspace;

... your lips will find its way to mine,

... our hearts will finally entwine.

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But how can that be? You're there, I'm here, so let it be?
How can you ever let me go like this?
We haven't even had our own first kiss?
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Its hard to wait around for something you know won't ever happen...But it`s even harder to give up, specially when its everything you've ever wanted.

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How I wish each day that things will be real, and I don't have to face this screen and stay still. How I wish things were the same as before..When all I do was to wait for your call...
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The truth is, we hide because we wanna be found,..We walk away to see who follows,...We cry to see who wipes away the tears,...And we let our hearts be broken, to see who'll come and fix them..
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BEYOND THE SCREEN...... Jan 20, 2007 12:11 pm
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*...You've been exchanging notes and posts, emails and all for quite sometime already...then, you decide to give out your phone number, address, and then, finally meet in person..

*...what would you do if things weren't the way you expect them to be?..
a) dump the person...never to communicate again.
b) give the person a second, perhaps the 3rd chance and wait for any sparks to fly...
c) pretend to be still friends and look for more prospects, but keep him/her on your "hotlist"
in case, there aren't too much of a good catch out there and get back to him/her.
d) just wait a lot longer for better luck.
e) give it a try just the same, hoping things will develop
f) quit online dating and go back to the real world!
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THE BROKENHEARTED: Which one are you? Jan 14, 2007 11:16 am
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I'm sure, more than 90% of us, members of FFF, have our hearts broken maybe once, twice, or even more. There will be aftermaths of those painful experiences...I'd like to know how honestly you can relate yourself to the ff:

1. DOORS CLOSED (by choice):
You just don't feel that you'll ever want to be in a relationship again. You've closed that door and let the opportunities to be happy again came by w/o really giving it a chance.

2. DOORS WIDELY OPEN (too soon):
Your attitude is such that "easy come, easy go, easy to replace...no time is wasted." Life is short, might as well enjoy and have fun and never, ever look back..(Geesh! I wish I have that kind of attitude)

3. DOORS HALFWAY OPEN:
Yes,..No,...Maybe,...So,...Maybe I should, but no, I can't do it now, maybe later...Stop and Go kinda or Green and Red type of signals...In short, you just couldn't make up your mind..

4. SELF-BLAME:
You think and rethink that your past love failed mainly because of you, and you just can't get over that feeling?

5. S/HE IS TO BLAME:
It was her/his fault,...never yours,...Sadly, you can't get over that too!

6. PUNITIVE:
S/He hurt you so bad, you feel not only punishing her/him, but the next person/s who'd fall in love with you. Now, THIS IS REALLY UNFAIR! Just because somebody hurt you, doesn't mean you'll hurt innocent people in return.. You're not only depriving yourself to be happy again, but you're also denying the next person the chance to prove to you that s/he is different.

7. RISK TAKER:
You'll go to all extent just to fall in love and be happy again, no matter what it takes you to get there.

8. GUILTY:
You can't be in a relationship right now or anytime soon until your kids (from former relationship/s) give you the go-signal or when they are done in school...(whooaaahhh! at some point I felt this way too!)

AND MANY MORE reasons...Please tell me, where do you fit in?
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