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Why Do People Lie ??
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Jun 28, 2009 11:07 pm
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Yeah, i wanted to text for an opinion from a friend who's known for being a liar as to why people lie but i thought she might not be truthful with her answer 
Bad thing about lying is it's bad when it risks a precious reputation. When i was in ELR long time ago, some schmuck there was trying to court a girl i knew for a private chat and the girl kept on making excuses so i told her, Oh that guy is not even worth a lie! The point is, if lying at that moment is losing one last point for a destination to hell, it would be disgusting if some was the cause of such doom 
Chocolate cake is expensive, its look is extremely scrumptious but not all of them is actually nice. It's easier to profess it totally tastes nice for the sake of preserving its value- it's a chocolate cake! Even if in fact it's not totally pleasing.
Sacrifice is flavorful when a little girl hopes for Santa than learning to accept there's no way or there can be no other way to obtain what her heart yearns about. The road to take would be harder as she will start to accept a certain fact.
Anyway, this isn't about liars, but why do we lie? Is it necessary to lie? There are some areas of my vulnerability that are not too nice, oh just how disgusting, which i think should be better kept as mystery or a puzzle that only myself could solve for a gift of peace and freedom, whatever that would sound nicer! There are also times i could not find help which sometimes that help is not even allowed nor necessary.
Sometimes it's better to offend God than to hurt the people who also live inside my heart, in my thoughts, in my house, in my neighborhood and the people who are fragile and needy  God is much more understanding than them anyway. It's not that Im blaming anyone that i have to lie sometimes but we are just so sensitive, ya know! 
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My Mom & Dad's Jobs
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Jun 27, 2009 10:46 pm
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Just like others, my mom and dad are love-borers. Mom is a meticulous babysitter which is mostly a little annoying coz she treats me like a baby when soon i'd be 30 . I hate to keep on answering her, "yes mom/yes ma'am" when she's not even a teacher but then she acts like a principal. Oh apparently, she's a waitress coz she prepares and serves me my lunch.
Oh Im such a bum and i feel bad sometimes Im starting to love being idle and lazy around the house
My dad, oh i dont know but i guess he's one of the country's best assistants- just the way he practices it in all fields which mom runs everyday. Just before neighbor's cock crows, together they get up- as if they are the ones who open the world's entrance gate and main door for all people; As if there'd be no day and everything will be topsy turvy without them.
My mom oftentimes think that she's an architect or an engineer and my dad, being a frustrated lawyer and politician has "managed" well at idolizing the "overplaying people power"
Hayz, i love them. I didn't choose my parents so i dont have any other choice but to love and cherish them.
Anyway, my mom is brilliant businesswoman and my dad is a landowner and a lot of people look up to them which i am proud about. 
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If I could be Invisible...
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Jun 27, 2009 4:16 pm
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If i could be invisible, i would crash into my guy's room at night to see what he's doing before he goes to sleep, like, why he sometimes forgets my morning message Just messin' babe! But like a guardian angel, i would watch him sleep and i would try to kiss away his cares. Of course to be able to get to his place, i should get myself to the plane going Meath without hassles 
But if i were invisible, i wouldn't waste my time hiding and examining like a paranoid...
If i were invisible, I would inform my guy that "Im here" right at that moment, as i always am.
But ya know, this curiosity thing is the hitch here! And i might kill it as much as i would I'd have many eyes, many ears but im sure it's gonna be a waste of time finding out unnecessary things and spoiling some surprises that life has to offer.
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No Doubts; Just Fantasy !!
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Jun 26, 2009 8:03 am
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Think you've found The One? To be sure, get your head off the clouds and give yourself a reality check.
FANTASY:
We're meant to be because we devote 100 percent of our time to each other.
REALITY: If both your worlds revolve solely around each other, there may be a danger of LOSING EMOTIONAL INDEPENDENCE. The closer a relationship is, the greater its power to trigger ancient roles and feelings that DISTORT YOUR ABILITY TO PERCEIVE YOURSELF AND YOUR MAN accurately and to interact in a mature and loving way. - Linda Austin, MD.
FANTASY:
He's The One because he made ligaw in the most romantically persistent way.
REALITY: Another misleading concept is "putting commitment before compatibility". Just because he committed to you (or said I love you) so quickly without first really and honestly knowing the good and not-so-good side of you, doesnt mean that he's The One for you, nor is it a guarantee that your relationship can stand the test of time. -Goldbaum
FANTASY:
We're perfect for each other because we have such intense sexual chemistry.
REALITY: Giving in to seduction and blind lust right away is a sure sign of relationship downfall. Sometimes the seks is just so good we forget that it's love, compatibility and emotional understanding that makes a relationship last. -Goldbaum
FANTASY:
We're "bagay" because we have the same social status, education, career, and interests. Plus, our families have known each other for years!
REALITY: These are just some of the transient qualities on which people tend to base their relationship. People tend to fall in love for the wrong reasons. They are not a sufficient foundation on which to build a solid, long-term relationship. Holding on to a relationship to "save face" or merely because it's convenient will set you up for a lot of unnecessary hurt in the end in the long run.
Source: C. Samson
Fantasy does exist particularly in our minds so it can be real around us. There's no perfect relationship and "perfect together" is a kind of belief that any couple has because it's what they feel. No experts, no scientific explanation... Although this article is a great reminder on how we should perceive about our feelings and relationship but the stated fantasies above are only expressed out of our understanding limits but those are really, really great potential to keep the relationship going. As long as they are happy together and whatever that makes them happy. Simple as that.
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No Magician Like Love
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Jun 23, 2009 7:02 pm
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Love comes from within, thus, loving ourselves is the most important thing to consider. No matter how much we love the person and sacrifice, perseverance, understanding are there... If self-esteem is shrinking, respect is weaken resulting to one of the possibilities of turning into that utmost selfish ways and everybody else around us, the ones who also care for us and need us will be the first ones affected as well as things such as our priorities and our sense of focus.
He is not the only one in your world and not your world alone most especially if you can feel you're not even important to him. For me, Freedom is still the best gift that we can give to the one we love and to ourselves. Most of the time we fail to recognize that one of the reasons why we only want to hold on is because of PRIDE. Even though we still care about the person, it's better to just hold on to the memories as a gratitude that love had once passed by us.
We knew and he knew that we gave everything for the relationship but we could not perform or cover up his part. We were only there to love and take good care of him as much as we can give but we could not turn the whole world around for him. Truth is, we really dont own anyone's heart. We were only given an opportunity to be the caretaker of it- a task or an experience to be nourished more painstakingly than our own.
by MrsJohnny
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Why job Applicants keep Getting Rejected ?
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Jun 22, 2009 8:07 am
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Nothing personal, just a harsh reality you need to take into consideration: it is not easy to find a job when everyone else is looking for one.
Why do you keep getting rejected? Many reasons- but just the most basic:
1. YOUR OWN NEGLECT
Things like you might have sent your resume to the wrong address or you addressed it to the wrong person. You need to do research on the companies you're applying for before you send your resume. If you are too lazy to research the company concerned then you probably shouldn't apply for the position.
2. NOT SHOWING COMPANIES WHY THEY NEED YOU
Some people make hundreds of photocopies of a generic cover letter and resume and send it to every position available in the Classified Ads. Here's why that approach is wrong:
- If you dont care about what position you get, it will show in your generic cover letter and resume.
- you are wasting time, money, and resources. Why not carefully choose jobs based on your skills, education, and background, then polish and tailor your cover letter and resume towards these jobs?
- You need to make a good impression; how can you do that with a generic resume? A generic resume usually means nothing unless the company you're applying for has such low standards, they can afford to hire people who dont care.
Keep in mind that recruiters need to know what you can do for a company; what a company can do for you is a negligible concern, at best.
3. BAD RESUME OR COVER LETTER
Examine your job search methods, your resume, your cover letter, how you send your resume, what it looks like, etc. Your cover letter could be pompous or annoying or badly written. The same goes for messy resumes, resumes printed or colored or scented paper, resumes with messy or loud layouts, and soon.
4. YOU DONT FIT IN
Team managers often get to interview applicants first because they will have to determine if an applicant can work well with the team.
5. YOU GAVE A BAD IMPRESSION DURING THE INTERVIEW
Bashing, dressing inappropriately, being too aggressive, acting like a child or being overly comfortable with the interviewer, being overly talkative, and so on. Dont memorize a script; the point is to be prepared to answer questions- not to spit out the same responses over and over.
6. YOURE OVER OR UNDER-QUALIFIED FOR THE POSITION
7. ANNOYING BEHAVIOR DURING THE JOB SEEKING PROCESS
Politeness, courtesy and consideration every step of the way is crucial and you should never forget your manners at any point of the job application process- and on the job.
Source: C. Bobis & K. Francisco
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Call Me Ugly and You could Go to Jail !
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Jun 16, 2009 8:00 am
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In Malaysia, it soon could be a crime for men to call their wives ugly. The Director of the Women's Aid Organization said that husbands who "demonstrate a pattern of causing mental and psychological damage" should face counseling, fines and jail terms. Mmm, i hope they will also do the same thing with the husbands who keep on calling their wives "a pig or an elephant" when they are starting to gain weight? 
Offenders include a husband who "tells his wife she is ugly or humiliates her until she feels emotionally pressured," Noorul Ainur said during a conference on violence against women. Ainur said, there was a need to criminalize emotional abuse because it could deeply scar a woman's dignity and self-confidence.
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Looking into a Cracked Mirror
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Jun 12, 2009 2:35 am
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This time, I am a stalker ...
Sometimes it's boring particularly when i keep on looking for you and i dont have to work hard to spot you. Even though it's still the same face, you wear the same shirt, my eyes have never get tired looking at your bangs. Yeah, less challenge- i dont even need a K-dog to sniff your scent for me in order to find you. I can smell you even in my dreams! Ya know, of course i also want to have more excitement like when i open that door, i'd get my ass startled at finding you there. Even more exciting when it makes me fart. Oh joy!
I never believed in love at first sight. But when i saw your face, i said, O heavens, there must be really something about that face. Especially that it goes sideview everytime i see it!
I am just a poor country girl who used to aspire to be President of the Philippines, wearing that blue glittering gown with very lengthy sleets on each side to attract investors. Yet in fact, it is even more possible to happen than to have you love me...
Well actually, Im only implying that making anyone love us is harder to obtain! 
by MrsJohnny
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Spend all Day in Bed and Get Married
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Jun 9, 2009 11:10 pm
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A part of human nature- they call it. Fabulous outfits coudnt hide the soul barrage- students, professionals, celebrities, regardless of which status they belong. Single or married? Seks- how irresistible is it?
The ones who think they are proper and upright, can they judge anyone for having such an untimely itch, when their time hasn't come yet
Being careless about having a relationship especially if we have axes to grind, even if we think we are in love, then... it might end up to wrong decisions... then unhappy companionship... then tempations...
then to cheat...
People seem feeling estranged being single… Many go for transcient happiness... and pleasure... especially if there's creek of cash involved.
They may not be the so-called Prostitutes, but every unexpected moment apt to turn them plainly a btch.
I dont want to have a soap opera kinda drama in life wherein my future kids would run to their grandma crying and say, "My classmates were teasing me that my mama is a bad girl!"
How about those pinays who chat with "foreigners" and ask for money or fiance visa?
Or even married women who get themselves uhhmm every time by their spouses when there's no love and respect involved? They might feel they are being abused.
Or some who enjoy “solo flight” for the meantime… Long ago, when I checked Masturbation in Websters, one of its definition found there was Abuse
Respect and Dignity- does Maria Clara still exist nowadays?
by MrsJohnny
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Feel it... See it... Have it Now !
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Jun 8, 2009 7:19 pm
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What we are now is also out of the choices we made a decade ago, a year ago, or even two weeks ago...
... More loneliness but no bitterness
... Craving for love yet there's willingness to give and sacrifice
... A wish for a good career, a bigger house, etc but no room for crab mentality...
Those are some pictures of real happiness!
- Living with what the heart beats. Dont deny. Dont resist.
- As we wait for an answer, we prepare ourselves as well.
- When ready, make a decision, pick a choice.
- Whatever the decision is, it should not prevent nor reduce from giving love- more love and cheer, we give!
So...
Congratulations, you just made the right choice!
by MrsJohnny
"Tomorrow has its own worry and it's not worrying for us... it's only waking us with o without breakfast." -Ching
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