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7/28/2008 8:53 am |
well written sunshine.     within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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hmmmm let me see if i can make headway about this conundrum.. in my opinion, a person does not cease to love someone with whom s/he shared many years << men are biologically built to get attracted to another female after being with one(specially after he sires) & if their bodies control their minds & not the other way around, meaning that they make a CONSCIOUS effort to be with the one he loves then problems arise bcoz us women were built to bear & take care of our children (not men)so right there is already a difficulty for men to stay put.. since most of us women want exclusivity in a relationship & men can't keep the thing in their pants after some time when the kids are of a certain age, problems will always arise.. now about the other woman, there are many reasons why other women have relationships with married men & the main reason is that married men know how to treat women & the majority are financially stable.. another important thing is married men are already "house broken & well-trained" hahahaha   & don't forget they "lie" about their relationships & swear it's the truth so what can this poor women do?lolz
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kaya bru.. mahal ka pa rin nya but he just can't help himself & for that it is better to forget him na & move on.. he will still cheat the next time, & that you can bet on!  it is important that you take care of yourself first.
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hmmmmmm...makes me think...in which situation would you rather be in?...in a relationship where the partner is not into it anymore, both of you unhappy?...or setting the partner free and seeing him/her happy with a new found relationship?... and one more question: if you were the one who is not happy with the relationship anymore and have tried everything to make it work but to no avail, would you rather stay because you don't want to hurt your partner?...would you hang on knowing you're just delaying the dreadful day that you would part?...
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7/29/2008 8:49 pm |
Shine, all I can tell you, is no matter how you love the person, somehow, the intensity of that feeling changes over the years, with or without a 3rd party...Temptation is everywhere, and sad to say, it can hit anyone, even the most religious... Just call me ELZ 
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i can only wish you find your happiness...the happiness that is not hitched on some else's wagon...
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