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kapeng_mainit

2/8/2012 1:07 am
MEN FLIRTING - how well do guys know the boundary between flirting and being friendly?





He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.
kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 1:32 am

guys say they never flirt,they're just messing with the ladies to see if they can get any. they say flirting isn't a guy thing but how well do we know of this?
its difficult to differentiate them especially with the outgoing friendly ones because this tend to be the way they are with a lot of women they come in contact with.
if a confident guy really likes you he will probably ask you out and if he doesn't he probably views you as a friend
the flirty type...tries to make you laugh a lot...sometimes this is just being friendly but sometimes it is flirting..



He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

fantasiamore
6797 posts 

2/8/2012 2:45 am

they will say equals to but never greater than or less than...if he is your boyfriend he will say he is just being friendly but if he is only your friend who is a boy, he will say he is flirting...does depend really on how you are related to the guy, when you asked him that question...lol!

a boyfriend will always play safe and say he is just being friendly but actually he is flirting, by our terms...his being extra specially nice or giving this preferential treatment and attention to a lady other than his girlfriend, by whatever means consider that already flirting...you just turn your back and you will see him talking to the other woman, observe that! and moreso when he could be away from you...that is his best chance of flirting with the object of his attention...

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

Internal4
332 posts 

2/8/2012 4:24 am

It's great being a guy, we can always play it safe.

oldkanaba
729 posts 

2/8/2012 6:14 am

I'm a flirt, I'm a flirt. Everyone knows it.
There's no denying and I love it.
As long as there's a woman who is sad
who'll feel better with a hug.
I'll give it to her with a smile
And make her feel that she is loved.

Flirting is good, as long as men/women don't lead on the other to believe that they are in love. It can be used to test the waters and check compatibility.

It's acceptable for a woman to be a flirt. Why is it a no-no for a man?

Anyway who will stop me?


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything

usmc_daddy_o
2002 posts

2/8/2012 7:04 am

Guys look at it as though it's a baseball game. Flirting is coming up to bat.. Being friendly - the warm-up swings. A foul ball unless it's recognized and reciprocated by the girl at which point it becomes or leads to a base hit. A first base hit is a date, second base is a kiss, third base a feel and a home run is,, Well you get the picture!

Everyday a holiday, every meal a feast! Ingats!

Charlie



Never believe a story that begins with "And then there was this one night in PO City, I was on the leeward side of six San Miguels, two baluts and a blushing pair of honey ko's bouncing on each knee.."

ajaw430
1767 posts 

2/8/2012 8:03 am

I like flirting and teasing, I do it all the time in elr BUT only to those ppl who knew me well and I`m comfortable with. It is my way of making fun and making them laugh, I get relax and at the same time release my inner me but I also know my limitations

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 8:56 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:
    I'm a flirt, I'm a flirt. Everyone knows it.
    There's no denying and I love it.
    As long as there's a woman who is sad
    who'll feel better with a hug.
    I'll give it to her with a smile
    And make her feel that she is loved.

    Flirting is good, as long as men/women don't lead on the other to believe that they are in love. It can be used to test the waters and check compatibility.

    It's acceptable for a woman to be a flirt. Why is it a no-no for a man?

    Anyway who will stop me?

I WILL!!!


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

fantasiamore
6797 posts 

2/8/2012 1:41 pm

i see you talking but isn't that being a little restrictive?

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

fantasiamore
6797 posts 

2/8/2012 1:45 pm

but you know what teng, i would rather see my man flirting with another woman infront of me or that i know it is happening, than when he does behind my back...that is more catastrophic for me because it is simply deceit!

“I hold it true, whatever befall; I it, when I sorrow most.

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 2:09 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    but you know what teng, i would rather see my man flirting with another woman infront of me or that i know it is happening, than when he does behind my back...that is more catastrophic for me because it is simply deceit!
tajane goodmorning,
i had the same conversation with badpren pam earlier.i told her the same thing.i better see my man flirting in front of me rather than flirting when i am not looking.at least he admits he is a flirt and so happy being one kesa naman the friend i know flirting every chance he gets then when ask he will be in total denial and not oblivious of what he is doing (echos)


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 2:25 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    i see you talking but isn't that being a little restrictive?
Tajane....there are only few restrictions....NO 'menage a trois' its bad for his health
Limit flirting from 10 am till 10 pm
Do not go home tired from flirting (or else i will send him back for more)
Age of women to flirt with will not be under 40 (reason...i don't want him coming home like a jejemon)


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 2:33 pm

    Quoting _alice_:
    Yeah, like we can't outwit them. Kunwari ka pa, Teng.
yes we can outwitt them and let them think they outwitted us


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 2:36 pm

    Quoting fantasiamore:
    they will say equals to but never greater than or less than...if he is your boyfriend he will say he is just being friendly but if he is only your friend who is a boy, he will say he is flirting...does depend really on how you are related to the guy, when you asked him that question...lol!

    a boyfriend will always play safe and say he is just being friendly but actually he is flirting, by our terms...his being extra specially nice or giving this preferential treatment and attention to a lady other than his girlfriend, by whatever means consider that already flirting...you just turn your back and you will see him talking to the other woman, observe that! and moreso when he could be away from you...that is his best chance of flirting with the object of his attention...
Tejane FLIRT is his middle name


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 2:39 pm

    Quoting Internal4:
    It's great being a guy, we can always play it safe.
aha! so you flirt too and playing safe hehe!

He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 3:01 pm

    Quoting usmc_daddy_o:
    Guys look at it as though it's a baseball game. Flirting is coming up to bat.. Being friendly - the warm-up swings. A foul ball unless it's recognized and reciprocated by the girl at which point it becomes or leads to a base hit. A first base hit is a date, second base is a kiss, third base a feel and a home run is,, Well you get the picture!
hmmmmm...perplexing

tnx for sharing your thoughts


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 3:04 pm

    Quoting ajaw430:
    I like flirting and teasing, I do it all the time in elr BUT only to those ppl who knew me well and I`m comfortable with. It is my way of making fun and making them laugh, I get relax and at the same time release my inner me but I also know my limitations
Grace


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

eb1209
24592 posts

2/8/2012 3:58 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:
    I'm a flirt, I'm a flirt. Everyone knows it.
    There's no denying and I love it.
    As long as there's a woman who is sad
    who'll feel better with a hug.
    I'll give it to her with a smile
    And make her feel that she is loved.

    Flirting is good, as long as men/women don't lead on the other to believe that they are in love. It can be used to test the waters and check compatibility.

    It's acceptable for a woman to be a flirt. Why is it a no-no for a man?

    Anyway who will stop me?

YOU CAN FLIRT ALL YOU WANT, BERT! But be prepared to have holes in your pockets!

Just call me ELZ, click eb1209

eb1209
24592 posts

2/8/2012 4:00 pm

teng, MEN are mostly good at flirting...But if you know them very well, there's a reason behind it, and usually, it's a cover up...Unless, the man is a GEMINI!

Just call me ELZ, click eb1209

eb1209
24592 posts

2/8/2012 4:01 pm

Oooooppppppsss!

Just call me ELZ, click eb1209

eb1209
24592 posts

2/8/2012 4:03 pm

I can be seductive, but I am not a flirt (hard to believe ha? )...At the first sign of a man thinking I am flirting with him...I RUN AS FAST AS I CAN! for REAL!

Just call me ELZ, click eb1209

oldkanaba
729 posts 

2/8/2012 4:15 pm

AHA!!! Lumalaban ka na

Akala ko giyera na to Pwede naman pala. Parang truce, me conditions


I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything

kapeng_mainit
345 posts 

2/8/2012 4:40 pm

    Quoting eb1209:
    I can be seductive, but I am not a flirt (hard to believe ha? )...At the first sign of a man thinking I am flirting with him...I RUN AS FAST AS I CAN! for REAL!
ELZ magaling ka pala sa sayonachi sayonachinelas ko takbo bilis by the way ...would you like to join us on fb ... FFF bloggers?


He was my cream, and I was his coffee - And when you poured us together, it was something.

theta2011
905 posts 

2/8/2012 6:32 pm

Teng,

I've seen you two flirting But I sensed something stronger than his coquet and your coquettishness..Ay naku you two, make it happen. Time is of the essence Sayang naman di ba? Love yah both..

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