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theta2011 53F
781 posts
11/6/2011 12:36 pm
I hate goodbyes

Goodbyes are really like tiny pricks in the ears and stabs in one's heart, that's why I seldom use the word, and if I did, only insignificantly - a passing remark, that's all.

We've found each other when we're both needy for somebody to love. Thought we could work something out. You said you love me, well, you've had a funny way of showing it. I'm in the bottom list of your priorities while I'm trying to make you on top of mine.

Another relationship gone down the drain. No regrets. I'll still be a friend should you need one. Just a piece of advice, if you love again one day, please give the girl the time of day, however, busy you are. Make her realize that you love her, and that she have a special place in your life and in your heart.

There's a time for everything. You've proven your worth in your profession, in fact, on top of it. Saved enough, a business to run. Too much of everything actually, except, a woman's love and understanding. I should have offered more, you didn't let me.


So, I shall not say goodbye to you, for if I do, I will be hurting myself too. Instead, I'll say goodluck for both of us. I'm really wishing you well.. I will definitely miss you Sir, (in loving jest) the quaint, sweet, silent man that I once knew..


...wish you can read this coz you asked me if I'm missing you. I can never forget my "mon ami.." and your fave "kamote" and saba.. Dont forget to take your medicines everyday..


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
11/7/2011 3:20 pm

Goodbye doesn't hurt as much when you've thought about it and you're ready to say it. Use it carefully and sparingly.

I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


oldkanaba 73M
2458 posts
11/7/2011 3:24 pm

    Quoting oldkanaba:
    Goodbye doesn't hurt as much when you've thought about it and you're ready to say it. Use it carefully and sparingly.
As you said, they're pricks anyway

I'm a senior citizen . Don't expect me to remember anything


TessRb 64F
7258 posts
11/7/2011 7:04 pm

Sis,

Me too, i'd rather say "see ya". It sounds so final. And i know i will get hurt and suffer the pain forever...

Greatest feelings in the world when two souls profess a love for each other...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/8/2011 4:26 am

    Quoting  :

Sis, this is the guy I'm planning to give a set of bedsheet for Christmas..looks like I'm gonna have it all by myself. I'll pick the pink one then...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/8/2011 4:39 am

    Quoting  :

Mad, maybe a reminder to slow down a bit and take time out for her. Remember po, women craves more attention than the men, but it doesn't makes us the weaker sex, hmmm, more humane I should say. Mas KSP kami he he he..

A time for everything..work will still be work, less a couple of hours a day, more you make her happy. No need to say sorry, an extra tight hug will work just fine. Thanks.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/8/2011 4:42 am

    Quoting  :

I dont know any Mr. Rez..Rez Cortez? he he he...


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/8/2011 4:53 am

    Quoting  :

Sis, Oh no!! Its entirely a different guy but from the sound of it, most of them have something in common, INSENSITIVE...

Right, they love to play with minds and emotions before they checkmated you..still you cant bring yourself to say goodbye

Thanks for the visit.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/8/2011 4:58 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Sis,

    Me too, i'd rather say "see ya". It sounds so final. And i know i will get hurt and suffer the pain forever...
Sis,
...why does it always have to be the women who suffered? Or maybe our virtue..for all of the pain and hurt, we still hope for LOVE. Thanks.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/8/2011 5:19 am

    Quoting oldkanaba:
    Goodbye doesn't hurt as much when you've thought about it and you're ready to say it. Use it carefully and sparingly.
Sir, There are other words conveying the same meaning but sounding pleasing to the ears like "see you next time" or "thanks for the good (bad) times"..

...so I'd rather not and spare myself from anguish of the real meaning of the word..Thanks po..


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/8/2011 5:39 am

    Quoting  :

Sis, Right-ho..one day I was in love and the next day I was so out of love ha ha ha..truly a roller coaster ride. But like you, I'm standing still fighting battles I've yet to win.

Siguro, everything will come to pass, I just wondered when..and what remains will be me, myself and I din pala.

Now I've come to realized, I really don't mind being alone, I'll only be depriving myself of physical glory while I'm giving my mind and my heart a blissful rest..

Will there be peace and happiness for the wicked?

Soon, sister. For you and me. Thanks


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/9/2011 3:59 am

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Bro, I just wish it will come sooner than soon..thanks.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/9/2011 4:13 am

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Sis, Really? The tables turned, I shall be the next happy one..I'll just nurse this heartache for a while then I'll bounce back..A retreat next week courtesy of a friend..

I'm just so delighted for you..one less lonely friend. All the best!


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/9/2011 4:22 am

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Sis, joke or no joke, I like the idea..with less clothes nga lang, say maybe we can rent a beachroom or a resort somewhere for a party -

Leave all troubles behind and be merry even for just a night..

Nah, you're ok na eh..my turn soon..


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/15/2011 7:56 pm

    Quoting  :

Sis,

I'm looking at your image in the mirror and surprise...I see me.

Haysss.....Smile lang tayo to ward the wrinkles away. Lets' just be happy


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/17/2011 4:19 am

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Pathetic! Ugh..Time to look after yourself naman. Time wasted but at least, you realized it sooner..Pwede ka pa teh, beauty pa tayo..and may "asim" pa, like a vintage wine (daw oh!)


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/22/2011 7:13 am

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Bro,

It happens..sabi nga, its better to be with someone who loves you than the one you love..

Sino kaya yun? Thanks for visiting.


theta2011 53F
1917 posts
11/29/2011 2:37 am

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Sis,

Right, though I doubt if that someone will come along, I mean someone that I cannot live without. You see, when I'm still living with my "best love" I thought I couldn't carry on in life should he leave me..

I've been separated from him 2yrs running..gradually, the pain's subsiding. Definitely I can say I'm moving on without him.

Thanks for the visit