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Broodstar73 50M
165 posts
6/23/2006 9:11 pm

Last Read:
11/15/2007 10:48 pm

LOVE


If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you,be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him,feel honored that love came and called at your door,but gently refuse the gift you can't return. Do not take advantage,do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you,and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys,even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another,and he falls in love with you,and then love chooses to leave,do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame,let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Have been so long without love,they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love,and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,but as their love cools,they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift,and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this,and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time,its own seasons,and its own reason for coming and going. You can't bribe it or coerce it,or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover,there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
IF YOU KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN,IT WILL COME AGAIN.



"Life Is To Be Fortified By Many Friendships."


iloveuspice 59F

6/25/2006 12:02 pm

It's true, Jopy..kepp your heart open..

WELCOME TO BLOGGING...keep it up,ok?


Broodstar73 50M

6/26/2006 8:25 am

    Quoting iloveuspice:
    It's true, Jopy..kepp your heart open..

    WELCOME TO BLOGGING...keep it up,ok?

Gina,surely "KEEP YOUR HEART OPEN IT WILL COME AGAIN"

"Life Is To Be Fortified By Many Friendships."


rageofangel 45F

7/14/2006 2:04 pm

*sigh* so true...


Broodstar73 50M

7/15/2006 9:46 pm

Indeed,"Love" will always be a mystery.

"Life Is To Be Fortified By Many Friendships."


deadstars3 47M

7/21/2006 1:46 pm

i'm impress...did u really write this bro? this is amazing. It really open my mind and hopefully my heart


Broodstar73 50M

7/23/2006 9:48 am

    Quoting deadstars3:
    i'm impress...did u really write this bro? this is amazing. It really open my mind and hopefully my heart
Nope,I did not write this. A friend of mine sent this in my e-mail. Good,it open your mind and heart.

"Life Is To Be Fortified By Many Friendships."


faith0929 53F
26 posts
11/15/2007 7:03 am

"But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover,there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do"

Yes bro, that's the irony of it.. why it come and have to leave you at the end...


Broodstar73 50M

11/15/2007 10:48 pm

    Quoting faith0929:
    "But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover,there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do"

    Yes bro, that's the irony of it.. why it come and have to leave you at the end...
Star,ganun talaga. There is something out there for you. Darating den yun. thanks! for posting.

"Life Is To Be Fortified By Many Friendships."