Blog : "THE HONOR CODE"

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1/22/2009 6:55 am

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"THE HONOR CODE"

Something you’ll learn about me is that I’m an honest and open lady. When I was a ,i used to visit my father who is in the Armed Forces of the Phils. He told me one time he took an oath called the Honor Code. “I will not lie, cheat, or steal; or tolerate those who do.” This may sound corny but the Honor Code makes sense to me. Wouldn’t the world be a better place if we all lived this way?

Its very good of course.However -can we expect a perfect world too?It seems if we don't tolerate - then we split the world in half.Maybe we have a need to change those who don't honor that code.So we labour to show them the benefits.Then we realize our labour is in vain.

For the right man, no ocean is too wide, no mountain is too high, no locale is too distant.

He will always be the last...

Sulei 66M

8039 posts
1/22/2009 9:19 am

it is good to have a code of honour!
but, that does not mean it is unbreakable!
if people break up their oath to God,
wouldn't they break it for the honour?!
beside that,
what would u say to those who don't even
have honour, or never heard or it?

God, I don't ask you to hold back my desitny,
but fill it with your mercy!

Donald_Hoppy
(maryidohl m) 78M

1/22/2009 1:34 pm

I think it's time to let Tony go Nadine, and get on with your life. I recommend you spend more time with your three children.

Only my 2 cents worth. Have a nice weekend..

What are you doing when you lose the most track of time? This is what you should spend the most time doing.

instanet 47F

743 posts
1/22/2009 4:43 pm

Donald_Hoppy

.....no promises. but i'll try..

i'm leaving all the pains behind and i'm putting down all the unnecessary emotional baggage. i've been lagging around all these heavy feelings around that i've actually forgotten how it is to be a free-spirit again. yes, i miss my being free-spirited-ness (is there even such a word??). but whatever, i still love some of the things i have remaining in me. and on top of that list is my 3 kids who makes me happy each day.How can i forget them?

so here's to more dreams. more spontaneity. more good moments. less frustrations. less stupidity. less things of the past. here's to a great year Nadine!

instanet 47F

743 posts
1/22/2009 5:47 pm

Am I very easy on the eyes ???

thanks for visitng my blog...it helps me understand what is honor code means..

thank you for your wishes!!!!

sweetdianne4u 47F

1/23/2009 1:20 am

I know that it isn't easy, had been there. But I'm sure soon we will be happy again.

Remember, through thick and think, we are sisters forever. I love you sis!

I love you - those three words have my life in them

instanet 47F

743 posts
1/23/2009 3:58 am

Donald_Hoppy

it makes me cry looking at his blings,I remember this burger,i asked Tony to make one for you.My heart aches because i really missed him and he's still in my heart,but don't know why he chose to be away,no emails,never heard from him till the day he said goodbye,it really hurts me everytime i visit FFF.

I don't know ..it's aching here..

instanet 47F

743 posts
1/23/2009 4:03 am

i ordered this bling for you,how can i forget him,I missed him very much.

instanet 47F

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1/23/2009 7:05 am

sweetdianne4u

I'm happy that you are always here with me,and you know I am here for u too.

Sweetdianne,please know we will always be there for you-Me and Cielo..

I love you...

instanet 47F

743 posts
1/23/2009 5:21 pm

forgetting is not the key.. acceptance is.. forgetting just suppresses a lot of emotions and you end up having to deal with them later when they get all pent up.. but once you accept that it was a losing-game from the very beginning, you tear-up for a night or two and know that yes, there was a moment in your life that you tried to give it your all but just wasn't enough.. that you tried to compromise and waited halfway only to be stood up..

love is an ugly, terrible business practiced by fools.. it'll trample your heart and leave you bleeding on the floor.. and what does it really get you in the end? nothing but a few incredible memories that you can't ever shake..

instanet 47F

743 posts
1/23/2009 5:27 pm

I cling on to that small hope that maybe, he's not just passing time off with me but actually investing time.. that he's not just trying out one-liners and what-nots with me for someone else, but making memories with me.. and that the reason why he is so at ease with me is not that he's not worried of being involved, but rather, he wants me to know who he really is and at the same time, get to know him more..

Maybe no..maybe yes..
I don't know...

instanet 47F

743 posts
1/23/2009 5:35 pm

Sulei

God, I don't ask you to hold back my desitny,
but fill it with your mercy!