Understanding Man's Sexual Libido  

hellfire_j8 1/28/2008 2:53 am Last Read: 1/28/2008 7:31 pm

Man, by nature, is polygamous. Oh, we know that for ages. Man does not become contented having one girl, or worse, of having a single wife. They said, and also we knew it, they prefer tasting different women to satisfy their sexual urges. It was also a known fact they have an undeniably high percentage of to being sexually stimulated than women. A simple porn film will give them a flag pole under their pants. A peek on women’s breast will rot their world of sexual fantasy. I have a neighbor who is unhappy couple. Married for over fifteen years and have been blessed with six children. All throughout their marriage, there were series of women who come and goes to their lives and still the wife endured it for the sake of her children. It is more endurable if there was only one other woman you are going to compete of, by mere age and beauty, for the excitement of having an illicit affair, for the sexual rush a man can’t have with his legal wife. But to have a series of illicit affair; four different women, is quite forbidding. It is also unforgivable, not only from the eyes of God or man itself. But unforgivable to a pure heart and genuinely love of a woman who sacrificed her life and career for her family. To the eyes of a legal wife who never thought that a man she married will turn out to be a monster she wished she never had a chance to meet at all. A man whose lust can’t be satisfied with his wife will find solace and comfort, warmth and sexual acrobat, with other woman. It might be younger than she was, beautiful as she is before she married him, sexy and luscious body she was denied when her body ripened by series of pregnancy. Or worst, she could be an older woman who offers security when it comes to finances. An older woman whose sexual libido is cannot be satisfied if it’s not a multiple orgasms. An older woman who, separated or single, believes more on the prowess of her own body. Is it worth losing the trust and security of your family because of your sexual libido? Is it worth losing the faith and love of your children due to your unashamedly flaunts of affairs? Publicly opening their eyes to the bitter side of the marriage of their very own parents, making them weep and taunt their own mother due to her martyrdom and blind love to their own father. Don’t let this happen to your own marriage. Sex is important to make a marriage work. But let alone love and trust, respect and fear of God is the solid foundation why you still held your wife at night, why you kissed her on the forehead and tell her how much you are thankful of her and the children she unselfishly gives you, and why you still look at her with that knowing look both of you could understand. Instead of dreaming you are digging some tight and younger hole; instead of thinking how will you ram her off to death. It will be fun, at first. Make you ache all over, make you writhe in agony of having her close to you. But it won’t last. It will never last a lifetime. But there is something that will last… Your respect for your wife will. joy