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" What Turns Women Off " It wouldn’t be the first time when I realized mid-way through a first date that this one was going to be the last with this particular guy. It is amazing how men fail to understand that one wrong move may cost them their partner. Even more surprising is the fact that they don’t even recognize what mistake they made. Little things you say or do might tarnish your reputation in the eyes of the girl forever. So if you want your lovelife to flourish, steer clear of the following errors: BASIC BAD MANNERS: These might not offend your friends, but it will never endear you to your special girl. Don’t use swear words and don’t be rude to people. Remember, the girl will judge you not only on the basis of how you behave with her but also with others. Talking with your mouth full of food or digging you nose in public will eventually disgust your date. If you are out to impress someone, being on your best behaviour is the sensible thing to do. CHAUVINISM: Being a male does not entitle you to treat females like dirt. Women deserve and expect respect. Acting like a sexist will lead you nowhere, at least, no where you want to get. ROVING EYES: Don’t stare at other girls. At least, not while you are on a date. Try to give your girl 100% attention. Not only will that create a good impression, but it will also rid the girl of any insecurities she might have. CLINGING PARTNERS: Okay, she is your girl, but she does have her own life. The more you try to invade her personal space, the more she will want to escape. Don’t suffocate her. Remember, you are two different people. Being together 24/7 or calling every half hour is not a good idea. Freedom is a requisite in a relationship. NON-STOP PHONECALLS: You are on a date but one of your ears is constantly stuck to your cellphone? That means, your partner is being neglected. If possible, keep your phone switched off while you are with her. Otherwise, either, don’t take the call or keep it short. COMPARISON: Each person has a separate identity. Comparing your current partner to your ex will make her insecure and jealous. It is extremely degrading to be constantly compared to someone else. It is not a competition, guys! BODY ODOR: Behaviour may affect your relationship in the later stages but no girl will come close to you if you smell bad. Use a deodorant or perfume. Or better still, take a bath. LIES: You might be perfect in every other way, but if you lie and get caught, consider the relationship dead. Trust takes a long time to establish. One little white lie can ruin everything forever. As long as you don’t commit these mistakes, you are in relatively safe territory. And if you can still turn a girl off, you’ll find out because in that case she wont talk to you anyway. --- excerpt from, " Love Lectures: Building Healthy and Successful Relationships " |
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welcome to blogsville simpleandmushy!!!! i dated a girl with all of thise qualities she lied whenever a white man walked past she would watch and i mean turn to watch him not just with the sneaky look but hey!!!! some things aren't meant to be i suppose  to think of life as a journey of your actions and a result of you reactions
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10/10/2007 1:53 am |
welcome to blogsville simpleandmushy!!!! i dated a girl with all of thise qualities she lied whenever a white man walked past she would watch and i mean turn to watch him not just with the sneaky look but hey!!!! some things aren't meant to be i suppose  That he's not content with me. And he wants other girls, not me
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10/10/2007 1:55 am |
Roving eyes & comparison.
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