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moonchaser 60M
35 posts
5/30/2007 12:53 pm
Big Big Little Hearts VS. Selfish Superficiality

PLEASE COMMENT

I do not want to cast a broad net over American women. There exceptions in all cases. Hey, There are millions of wonderful women in America. The catch is: they are already taken!
The rest - well, You see where I am spending my time and energy.

An observation or generalization is that eligible women in America are pretty picky. It almost sounds adolescent. He's got to be slimmer, taller, richer, non-drinker, non-smoker, and have to raise my . It is an attitude that comes across as selfish and superficial.

I am seeing something very different from my contacts with the profiles of the ladies on FFF.
"I'm not into looks, looks are not important to me, I am not materialistic, money is not important, Age is not important, I'm just looking for an honest, Big hearted, loving, God-fearing man, hard working man, accepts me for who I am. etc. etc." Contacts to me, even seem to overlook my weight and cigarettes - and they do not smoke !!!

This comes across as VERY Accepting, Very Tolerant, Very Generous, Very Big Hearted, Hey lets call it what it is: Loving!!

Maybe some readers would enlighten me about this difference and what equips Pinay Ladies to be so gracious and giving in this way . I am impressed by the level of acceptance, contentment, and tolereance. Where does this come from? Is it real? Does it break down in real life? I'm very curious and want to understand this cultural capacity. Outsider, looking in - it appears to be a real BLESSING!

Thank you for your time and consideration.
May God Bless and Keep You and yours! Dave

PLEASE COMMENT


Thank You For Your Time and Consideration ! Be Safe !! and, God Bless You and Yours !!! DAVE

Hebrews 10;24-25: And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works; Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one anothe: and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching.


smiley1957 66F

5/31/2007 12:05 am

hmmmmmm....

let's talk at YM!!



moonchaser replies on 6/14/2007 6:58 pm:
Hello smiley1957
Thank you for your comment!
Forgive me, but I am new at this game and reference loses me. Please feel free to write me or comment more here. Have a great day! And, God Bless! Dave

afinity7961
(Ada )
62F
199 posts
5/31/2007 7:43 pm

well you know women...in general we want happy ever after and till death do us partso you guys have to understand us specially us pinays...so if you want to talk and know more about pinays qualities and idiosyncrasies i can elaborate on that and give you some insights

Afinity


moonchaser replies on 6/14/2007 6:53 pm:
Hello affinity7961,
Thank you for commenting!
Please elaborate and share in those insights. Brevity is not necessary. I am awaiting with baited breath. Dave

_lipstick_ 42F
125 posts
6/1/2007 3:52 pm

What no beautician would ever tell a woman is that the secret to being beautiful is thinking the right thoughts.


moonchaser replies on 6/14/2007 6:50 pm:
Hello Lipstick,
Would you like to enligten as to the beauty of thinking right thoughts. What are those "right thoughts?"
Thank you for commenting! Dave

tess82 52F

6/1/2007 7:36 pm

BEHIND EVERY GREAT MAN....THERE IS A GREATER WOMAN


moonchaser replies on 6/14/2007 6:47 pm:
Greetings Tess82,
I think there is great truth in the statement: "Behind every great man ... There is a greater woman!" However, how do you define - "greater". What are the qualities that would make a "greater woman?"
Thank you for your comment! Dave

married_girl 47F

6/5/2007 12:17 pm

Ladies prove me wrong on this one, but I have a friend who was the exact same way as moonchaser. She accepted all the vices, etc.. but the reason was she would do anything just to get to the states. She was from another country. Once she got her papers legally, she turned into a monster. Had an affair, moved out, took all his money and left the guy jilted.


moonchaser replies on 6/14/2007 6:44 pm:
Thank You married girl
My question then, is how does one differentiate over time and distance between the grubbers and the sincere ladies?
Thank you for your comment! Dave

i_have_my_yezza 53M

6/29/2007 7:17 pm

i think dave that if the western world to a page out of the pinay ways the western world would be a much happier place


moonchaser replies on 7/2/2007 10:02 pm:
Well Bud, You can say a lot in a few words!!
I do not have that gift.
We had something like this once. My elders described a life like this. I remember vestiges of this when I was a kid. I grieve for what we have lost out of selfishness, laziness, and an amoral rejection of TRUTH! I must admit that It is hard for me at times to listen to the kinder winds of my nature. To keep my eyes on the "Finish Line," as Paul wrote. I am so glad that as a long time Christian, that the Lord has not forsaken me when I have betrayed.

In those instances, I am reminded of his gift. Also, that I am yet a work in progress!! His work in me is not finished. Maybe God has a plan for a certain body to come into my life - to help in the finishing process. I feel sorry for her.

Thanks Bud, for commenting. Dave