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CAGED BIRD SINGS---DEDICATED TO ALL WOMEN "This post is inspired by my former blog, I Can't be my Ex's Friend, and the responses I got from some women who dared to let go from chaotic set-up of unhappy relationships". There are instances in life where you will meet a person who will paint another hues and contrasts of colors. The new experience will often give excitement and thrill simply because it had broken the routine that is used to be done daily. The world will eventually full of colors and the clouds will come down underneath the feet and walking through it is heavenly.This time is "the you mean the world to me" stage and I bet most relations have underwent this, that's why a more serious commitment happened next. For some, this serious commitment serves as a binding contract or a virtual tie that sets the boundaries of does and don'ts. The does and dont's are plainly the "what I want and what you want" in order to have compatibility in the act of co-existence. Afetr defining the boundaries based on personal desires and caprices,the clouds and the colors started to be lifted and faded. Troubles of keeping the balance comes in. The uplifting relationship will turn to be punishing and choking. Oppression, demand and manipulation will then be part of vocabulary. Some will try to endure the condition hoping that one day things will be backed to normal. Some will abruptly pack their things and pretend that this chapter did not exist. Some will be left without any choice and be bounded in these conditions forever. Sad, but it happens. Most of the time, it is the women who are prone to be drown and be binded in the deep abyss of a choking and unhappy relationship. There are several women who are left without a choice because of several reasons--, unable to stand alone, legal separation is way too expensive,over rated "LOVE", etc. etc.They became prisoners of an imaginary cage that little by little degrading their self-esteem and identity. Then, the cycle of this story goes on and on. It will affect the decision making, rearing and the over all conception of things. I have meet several women who dared and succeeded in letting go and moving on. However,If we look into the ratio of daring women against those who end up drowning, the proportion is way too far. I am wondering, how many of our women remain in the cage and continue to sing their songs of griefs and lamentations. Now, "I know why the caged bird sings", she wants to be free and fly again. To all the women who are still inside the cage, the courage to dare always starts from deep within yourself.The process maybe hard and painful but the rewards are always lasting. In the end, you will surely win, simply, because, YOU ARE A WOMAN.  
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Thats a real will power sis Thank you and have a great week ahead.
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Even the caged bird longs for a nest. And a wandering bird hopes to find a resting place. Thank you sis.
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bakit kaya? maybe it`s because you`re as crazy as I am.. of course I`m okay..just a little sad I guess..thank you for asking..you take care.. you are right...it takes one to know one.. hehehe.
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5/31/2009 8:55 am |
Joseph, I never wonder why you are my friend... The reason is obvious....hehehehehe hope you are okey. Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
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Even the caged bird longs for a nest. And a wandering bird hopes to find a resting place.
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You`re women..I hear you roar in numbers too big to ignore and I`m here on the sidelines.. and I applaud..right on my friend! I never wonder why you are my friend... The reason is obvious....hehehehehe hope you are okey.
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love is so unfair. Love is never unfair. It depends on what you mean of and how you see love. May your weekend be filled with love. Thank you for dropping by sis.
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5/30/2009 6:35 pm |
You`re women..I hear you roar in numbers too big to ignore and I`m here on the sidelines.. and I applaud..right on my friend! Love like it`s the best there is.. like it`s the last one you`ll have..and make it real..
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love is so unfair. *It's all said & done, it's real, and it's been fun.*
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