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Blogs > Cherish_Amour > Wonderful Feeling


Cherish_Amour 66F
178 posts
4/13/2007 2:40 am

Last Read:
4/15/2007 9:07 pm
Satisfying Relationship Important to You?
Being in this site, we have taken the first step toward overcoming the single biggest problem people seeking a relationship have: access to meeting quality new people.

Now you face two important tasks. Obviously you have to find the person you would like to have a relationship with. But you also have to prepare yourself for a successful relationship.

Studies of dating and relationships find that traits we otherwise think of as very important - such as our age, income, and education level - are completely unrelated to the likelihood of finding a satisfying relationship. What does matter is our perspective on our life and the world. People who build successful relationships believe they are capable, believe they are worth valuing. They are open-minded, willing to consider things from a new viewpoint. And, they focus on their long-term future and needs.

In searching for a potential relationship, you will need to define yourself and define what you are looking for. Your long-term perspective will help. It turns out that most of the traits that attract people to each other - the things that excite us - no longer matter to us a few months after a relationship begins. Instead, what sustains a relationship over time are respect, equality, friendship, and kindness. We know from studies of long-time married couples that what keeps their relationships strong is not high living or spectacular vacations, but a love they show on average days, expressed in average ways.

What does this mean when you are staring at an empty personals' box trying to explain who you are and what you are looking for? You just have to tell your story. Tell the story that shows your capacity for friendship, for kindness, for respect, for love. Tell the story that shows what you value in another person. Tell your story, but leave room for a new happy ending.

Good luck to all of us!


eb1209

4/13/2007 3:17 am

 Sweet Cher! My life is almost an open book which is very transparent of what I want and what I need in this temporal life...I tried to form a new relationship via this medium a couple of times...I'd say, I am "quite" successful, but not "quite" there yet...Thanks for this blogs my dear...Hope you read the email I sent you via the yaaaahhhhhoooooooooo..............
Just call me ELZ


Cherish_Amour 66F
196 posts
4/13/2007 5:47 pm
    Quoting eb1209:
    Sweet Cher! My life is almost an open book which is very transparent of what I want and what I need in this temporal life...I tried to form a new relationship via this medium a couple of times...I'd say, I am "quite" successful, but not "quite" there yet...Thanks for this blogs my dear...Hope you read the email I sent you via the yaaaahhhhhoooooooooo..............
My dear Elsa, we're so much alike, sis!

Oh, you sent it already? Hmmm.. I checked my fff mailbox but nothing there about you-know-what I better check my Bulk Mail - it might have gone there


eb1209

4/15/2007 6:17 pm

 Cher! I wanted to show our pics too, para kumpleto..
Just call me ELZ


Cherish_Amour 66F
196 posts
4/15/2007 9:07 pm

 Elsa, Iwant to see them too - send them na, dali sis!!!




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