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"I'm Pregnant" A few days ago, a friend told me he got a girl pregnant. I do not know the girl. All I know is that she is an ex-model, with a , and unmarried. She asked my friend for help to start a jewelry business, which he did. Anyway, he was confused and barely has time for himself, but he decided to be responsible, not by marrying her though, but by giving her all the moral, emotional and financial support she would need. Two days ago, he gave me a call and told me that they lost the baby. Here are the chain of events: My friend is based in Malaysia but has an apartment in HongKong. He flew the girl there so that she can get things together. When in HongKong, the girl at two months pregnant, has had her cravings. Then she had the mood swings, which tested my friend's patience. My friend had to work and the girl decided to see her friends there so she can have her last "party". She's 25 by the way. Back in Manila, the girl arranged for her to announce her pregnancy to her supposed conservative family. With him. He agreed even when he's in the middle of several business deals. Juggling things, my friend had to fly in to Manila to give her moral support. Then he received an SMS from her sister, that the girl was rushed to the hospital. And he goes, is the baby ok? The sister goes, what baby? He was supposed to see her Saturday, but according to the doctor (I dunno if he talked to the doctor personally), he cannot see her yet. After more than 24 hours, he can't see her. My friend and I saw each other and he told me he was excited over the baby and that he was crushed to know the baby is gone. I have never seen him so down. Today, he saw her for lunch. I mean, she saw him for him to treat her to lunch in an expensive restaurant. Through chat today, he said that the girl is crushed that she burst into tears every 10 minutes. She said that the baby was blighted, meaning it had been dead inside her. I was the third party who listened. I never told him, but I know one of them is not telling the truth. At least one of them fabricated or invented a story. Three reasons. He's married with three . She needs a rich husband. A pregnant woman craves(meaning, she couldn't have had a blighted baby and crave at the same time.) Tarantado talaga mga tao. 
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9/30/2007 3:41 am |
You know, life sucks. Now, since the baby is "dead", he is not liable for the girl moral, financial,... needs, that is unless he truly wants to keep her. If I were him, I'd run as far away as I can from that girl, she spells trouble. Tell him to cut his losses, just charge it to experience.
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9/30/2007 4:10 am |
We all do very stupid things from time to time, but some more than others. One seemed to have acted with little thought for the consequence of their actions. The other acted knowing the result, for their own means. No wonder you're annoyed. Good luck to both of them.    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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You know, life sucks. Now, since the baby is "dead", he is not liable for the girl moral, financial,... needs, that is unless he truly wants to keep her. If I were him, I'd run as far away as I can from that girl, she spells trouble. Tell him to cut his losses, just charge it to experience. 
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We all do very stupid things from time to time, but some more than others. One seemed to have acted with little thought for the consequence of their actions. The other acted knowing the result, for their own means. No wonder you're annoyed. Good luck to both of them.
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