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_Darkangel1_ 46F
4006 posts
12/10/2006 8:23 pm

Last Read:
12/12/2006 7:15 pm

Which is better: Live in or Marriage?


i want to get some ideas and opinion here .. Some people in the philippines practice in live in and much easier than marriage ..some marriage end up of divorce and unfaithful husband/wife and they think live in is okey to start if the relationship work out and much easier to anything.. I dont know you guys whats your own opinion with regards this topic..

"Enjoy life while your'e still young."


Celia2005 65F

12/10/2006 9:26 pm

i'll go for steady BF .....

Have a nice day !


McDonald1946 77M

12/10/2006 11:01 pm

    Quoting Celia2005:
    i'll go for steady BF .....
I don't want to get married, so I'll take one for live in, and one for live out...


almie 47F
786 posts
12/11/2006 12:58 am

personally i prefer marriage pa rin. kze may panghahawakan ka.And devoted Catholic ang family ko. I dont want to have problems regarding moral issues. But i dont have any problem to those who are living in basta both partners are mature enough to handle their situation.


bebong2005 56F
9764 posts
12/11/2006 3:16 am

I am definitely for MARRIAGE, even though mine ended up bitterly after 20 years; i STILL BELIEVE in it. I am not prejudicing, prejudging or criticizing others who are or want to be in this situation; But for me personally, It's marriage or nothing.

I cannot be with a guy who doesn't want to marry me. In my eyes, he doesn't want to be fully committed and only using me as a 'in-between-stop- to where he really wanted to go.

I know that marriage is not a guarantee that the relationship will gonna work out; but at least it's a sign that both of you are willing to commit fully. heart, mind, body and soul.

And to me personally.. that will be an ultimate prooft that it's me he really wants and no other. To show to the world that I AM HIS LAWFULLY WEDDED WIFE and not just one of those random girls.

I can never be sure that he will be faithful all the time (and by the way, the knife cuts both ways) but whoever he gonna have a fling with..She will always be the other woman and i will always be the WIFE. I have the rights!

~ Jolielaide


mmm_ahuh 40F
143 posts
12/11/2006 4:11 am

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wow cloud..now WILL YOU MARRY ME!!!,..lolss


SHANELYN_3 47F

12/11/2006 5:06 pm

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sis shine...your right...whatever the condition of commitments ...during the time of seperations....it does hurt....but we must think and realize that we can't be like this forever..punishing ourseleves for something we didn't done. we must learn to let go and leave everything to God ...eventually all the things we need to know now..will just show right our very eyes...in due time....


_HeartbreakeR_ 39F

12/12/2006 2:33 am

marriage!!!... cuz im against of pre-marital s3x


_Alias_ 46F
151 posts
12/12/2006 3:29 am

marriage po kasi sarado catholic po family ko..baka isumpa ako ng family ko..nice post ....


virgo0969 54F
429 posts
12/12/2006 10:07 am

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i agree with cloud3. i believe in the sanctity of marriage !!!

when two people love each other and want to spend the rest of their lives with each other, they get married to strengthen and protect the relationship. something is seriously wrong when a couple think about "if this does not work, we can get out of this easily." why think about it in the first place? it is a very clear indication that they don't trust their feeling and their relationship and this what makes the partnership weak. when the relationship gone sour, they don't exert much, much effort to work things out... coz they can easily walk away!

i believe that one of the most beautiful, most wonderful stage of a woman's life is when a man walks her down the aisle and commits and vows to love, respect and protect her for as long as they live.


virgo0969 54F
429 posts
12/12/2006 10:24 am

    Quoting bebong2005:
    I am definitely for MARRIAGE, even though mine ended up bitterly after 20 years; i STILL BELIEVE in it. I am not prejudicing, prejudging or criticizing others who are or want to be in this situation; But for me personally, It's marriage or nothing.

    I cannot be with a guy who doesn't want to marry me. In my eyes, he doesn't want to be fully committed and only using me as a 'in-between-stop- to where he really wanted to go.

    I know that marriage is not a guarantee that the relationship will gonna work out; but at least it's a sign that both of you are willing to commit fully. heart, mind, body and soul.

    And to me personally.. that will be an ultimate prooft that it's me he really wants and no other. To show to the world that I AM HIS LAWFULLY WEDDED WIFE and not just one of those random girls.

    I can never be sure that he will be faithful all the time (and by the way, the knife cuts both ways) but whoever he gonna have a fling with..She will always be the other woman and i will always be the WIFE. I have the rights!
i also heartily agree with this one...

nice post, ms. bebong!


SHANELYN_3 47F

12/12/2006 5:20 pm

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...==>>>>AMEN TO THAT!..BABY RYAN