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5/24/2008 12:38 pm |
i can relate, i thought i was reading my life story....anyway, that's why God is God..we are merely ordinary folks, that someone who sinned gravely, "truly" seeks it, and with that, forgiveness is still not guaranteed..i choose to forget and break ties, forever....
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5/24/2008 8:42 pm |
And I can also relate to this...And here in FFF...male and female...
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My ex-fiance is now a very close friend. He even told me that I am already family to him. He's now married with a kid, and he's excited over my future family, too. I also have an ex I don't think I can be friends with. The difference is the first one does not want to linger in the past. The second one is confused about what forgiveness means. Forgiveness is doing both sides a favor. None of the headaches and heartaches. Easier said than done, of course. I do enjoy this most of the time now.
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5/25/2008 6:44 am |
i can relate, i thought i was reading my life story....anyway, that's why God is God..we are merely ordinary folks, that someone who sinned gravely, "truly" seeks it, and with that, forgiveness is still not guaranteed..i choose to forget and break ties, forever.... Awww kuya bok, I've a lot to look forward to in life then. For we all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. Hence why we can never be perfect, but I'm sure we're perfect to someone and many in between.
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5/25/2008 6:53 am |
i can relate, i thought i was reading my life story....anyway, that's why God is God..we are merely ordinary folks, that someone who sinned gravely, "truly" seeks it, and with that, forgiveness is still not guaranteed..i choose to forget and break ties, forever.... I thought I broke ties, but there are some pieces that are loosely tied. This is a wonderful insight on forgiveness on how even if you've the best intention in the world and truly seek forgiveness, yet it's out of your control whether the person you've wronged can find the heart to forgive and forget. No guarantees, so you might as well go out of control sometimes Bok and enjoy the ride of life! If you don't I will.
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5/25/2008 6:58 am |
And I can also relate to this...And here in FFF...male and female...
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5/25/2008 7:01 am |
I think this is the ideal situation for me, after forgiving, I'd like to forget they exist too if only they didn't hang around closely.
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hi Jane my lovely friend so nice to be here at your place just wishing you lots of love and happiens this weekend its nice to be important but its more important to be nice
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5/25/2008 7:10 am |
Hello Ms. lightblue, I'd love a really good and convincing explanation, but I didn't get any. If they had, I forgot already. I feel awkward when a man cries, don't know what to do, but tried my best to handle the situation gently and calmly without destroying anybody. Dang being clear headed, cool and calculated is hard work during sudden incidents. Have a great week yourself Ms. I'm having quite a good weekend Ms. Blue despite the tone of my writings.
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5/25/2008 7:29 am |
My ex-fiance is now a very close friend. He even told me that I am already family to him. He's now married with a kid, and he's excited over my future family, too. I also have an ex I don't think I can be friends with. The difference is the first one does not want to linger in the past. The second one is confused about what forgiveness means. Forgiveness is doing both sides a favor. None of the headaches and heartaches. Easier said than done, of course. I do enjoy this most of the time now. I also miss your beautiful poetries and soulful writings. One of the few who can really with a spunky attitude. I learnt from the best. Tried being friends with the ex, we thought we could manage this at the start which we did for a few months but things didn't turn out very well lately. Ah well, the show must go on. I pray for less headaches because it seems inevitable that someone will break a heart at some point whether it's intentional or not. We must not treat the offender as if s/he has not done anything wrong. When we do this, it appears that we condone the offence and shows lack of consistency to uphold our principles and morals.
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5/25/2008 7:32 am |
hi Jane my lovely friend so nice to be here at your place just wishing you lots of love and happiens this weekend Wishing you don't have too many heartaches and sore heads Ricky. Many happy weeks to you Ricky!
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Awww, you're such a sweetie. Some lucky lady will have you some day. Wishing you don't have too many heartaches and sore heads Ricky. Many happy weeks to you Ricky! thanks for stopping and lots of love always its nice to be important but its more important to be nice
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How nice sis! Very glad to see you. Miss you loads girl friend. Hard to explain why, I guess it's a gut feeling. Thanks for being always very understanding sis . I also miss your beautiful poetries and soulful writings. One of the few who can really with a spunky attitude. I learnt from the best. Tried being friends with the ex, we thought we could manage this at the start which we did for a few months but things didn't turn out very well lately. Ah well, the show must go on. I pray for less headaches because it seems inevitable that someone will break a heart at some point whether it's intentional or not. We must not treat the offender as if s/he has not done anything wrong. When we do this, it appears that we condone the offence and shows lack of consistency to uphold our principles and morals. "The show must go on!" Definitely. I like iiiitttt (sabi nga ni Jolina. Do you know her? ) I agree that we should not leave an issue with the offender 'hanging'. There comes a point when we will need to confront and solve. And then another point when we can tell ourselves that we have forgotten and forgiven. Pero ikaw pa! I know you will get through this. Be happee and continue writing your beautiful thoughts.
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5/26/2008 11:48 am |
I'm glad you can forgive Mr. beechflyer. I'm a little tired this bank holiday Mon but I feel real good thanks for asking. How about you? When you're ready, willing and able rather than time heals. There is only one person in this world, I found I couldn't forgive and he wasn't an ex.
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5/28/2008 2:38 am |
Sadly Elena, I think he really cried with intense pain, yet it seems like crocodile tears too. I'm typically sceptical, this is probably why I couldn't really empathize with him. Happy, happy, happy, happy, happy thoughts, talk about dreams that you'd like to do.... [whistling] Thanks, take care and stay sweet! P.S- You're friendly with kuya Crimsonsky aren't you?
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5/28/2008 2:43 am |
Thank you for the compliments, gurlfriend. Miss you lots, too. You're one of the reasons I still write here. Because you read my most of the time corny and chummy entries! nyaha! "The show must go on!" Definitely. I like iiiitttt (sabi nga ni Jolina. Do you know her? ) I agree that we should not leave an issue with the offender 'hanging'. There comes a point when we will need to confront and solve. And then another point when we can tell ourselves that we have forgotten and forgiven. Pero ikaw pa! I know you will get through this. Be happee and continue writing your beautiful thoughts. I don't dish out compliments this easily. Who is Jolina sis? Did I walk by her the other day, maybe I don't recognise her? -----Confront and solve----
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5/28/2008 5:20 am |
These are very good points Elza. You seem to have more positive thoughts, so you'd be better at giving advise. Maybe a few people really have no decency and respect much for others. I'll accept this fact perhaps reluctantly. Do you mind doing the same for me when you see him first Elena? Kuya visits this blog sometimes. You'll come across him eventually or maybe even on chat which I'd briefly a few weeks ago.
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5/29/2008 4:26 am |
I believe many in FFF are beautiful women inside and out and maybe some men are handsome too , hence why we blog and make very sensible and smart comments. Live long and prosper peeps!! VVVVVVVVVV /o/o/o/o/o/o/o/o/ VVVVVVVVVVVVV
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5/29/2008 4:29 am |
I'd hate to disappoint anybody here in flesh if I don't "meet" their expectation and the impressionistic side online into the reality.
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