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Finally, you answered.  Good luck on your book Ricky. I want to do the same. Write a book or screenplay. Thanks very much for the kind words and overlooking any of my weaknesses and bad flaws.   That sure makes you a friend.thats great and I am happy I have companywith the book thing maybe we could share ideas its nice to be important but its more important to be nice
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4/17/2009 9:17 am |
you don't bore me jane. i don't know how you do it but you somehow always manage to keep us readers reading. good work writerjane. i think your guy is lucky to have you. good job you two. i envy you. because i seem to be the opposite. i'm such an expert at ending relationships. my mom tells me she keeps seeing wave after wave of women breaking up with me. such is the curse of prince charming. i'm not prince charming.. of course. i was actually more of referring to the curse itself. Hope you really mean it.  Wishing I could help you with what you said, but I'm no romance expert.  I can only tell you what I experienced and observed closely through others. To tell you the truth. We're lucky to have found each other at all. I was going to go back home to the Phil to study if it wasn't for my ex, but obviously I didn't because I'm still living abroad. My family and I have future plan to go on a vacation soon. I'll tell you more about laterz ok. Anyho, I'm not really into romance that much. I mean I've never been really been in a hurry to have a romantic relationship. I prefer friendship. On the other hand, a romantic relationship to me seems very complicated. To enter one, we gotta embrace it at our own risk so be prepared to get hurt when a chosen partner doesn't fulfil our expectations. My advice is if any about relationships is to have little expectation. If you've got very high standards, tone it down a little. If you've got very low standards almost to the point of desperation, stick to your guns and keep your dignity intact please. I do like guys, but not attracted to them seksually nor mentally. I got over the teenage hormonal thing pretty quick when I re-read a diary that I used to write about the boys I liked in school. I was sickened as a result of finding out what I wrote and realized that it didn't match the reality. The reality was that these guys who were pleasing to the eyes, but that was about all they had, they were total jerks in reality. Later on as I got older I found that I was attracted more to how guys think than how they look. But still I couldn't get past how shallow it would be to only feel any attraction because of it. Yes it's unfortunately a problem for me.  Then I met my ex unexpectedly which was my first serious relationship. Prior to this I had childhood boy friends, the cute kind of childhood sweetheart type. Went on short blind dates too because of pressure from others. I didn't think it was possible to meet a decent guy because throughout my life I haven't met many good male role models apart from my Poppy and lolo who comes from the older generation. There was little hope as far as I was concerned at the time of finding a good bf. Clearly we live in a new generation where some treat any kind of relationship more casually. I prefer to choose a bf for life in the hope of establishing some stability in my life. When I met my ex at the time, I didn't have any particular type of man in my mind. Over the few years we knew each other, I came to realize that he wasn't for me. I stayed with him mainly because I didn't know any better. Had no way of really measuring how he was whether he was any good as a bf apart from what others thought of him, but thanks to the ex I do know now. The ex gave me the confidence to make up my mind and decided to break up from him. This past relationship taught me a lot about myself and how I dealt with several other problems that we and I encountered whilst I was with him. In all, it made me appreciate my bf more.    within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/17/2009 9:20 am |
i think it's been banned. the MAN actually reads everything. tough job. i say this because i've a lot of articles that were banned too. much like my most recent one (yes, absimilliard has been posting lately, i'm still doing my job as a blogger), absimilliard's adventures part fourteen, which got banned too, due to sensitive material. i kept revising it but heck, it still won't make the final cut. it just means it really isn't a good material for people to read here, in case reading makes for hurt feelings or legal issues. but it still gets posted in my other blogs, thank heavens.  Hope we get to read your next adventure soon. My blog post is worst than the comments. In fact, the comments are safe. One of them is only a song lyric which doesn't include any kind of profanity. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/17/2009 9:21 am |
hi again my beautiful friend thats great and I am happy I have companywith the book thing maybe we could share ideas Maybe you can post in your blog. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/17/2009 9:35 am |
After all, relationships is about compromising which I'm not very good at but I try hard to work at this. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/18/2009 3:01 am |
you don't bore me jane. i don't know how you do it but you somehow always manage to keep us readers reading. good work writerjane. i think your guy is lucky to have you. good job you two. i envy you. because i seem to be the opposite. i'm such an expert at ending relationships. my mom tells me she keeps seeing wave after wave of women breaking up with me. such is the curse of prince charming. i'm not prince charming.. of course. i was actually more of referring to the curse itself. Don't worry about envy because you know your time can and will come. You just haven't met the kind of lady who is most compatible with you and wants to stick around with you for life. From what you've written so far you may have already delve into where, why and how your relationships went wrong and what went right like something you said, you did, you thought that made these women think twice about being with you. Can you pinpoint them now in order to make room for improvement? (Something to think about in your spare time) within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/18/2009 4:39 pm |
younglooking55 Not that I didn't want you here Mr. Young. To be really honest, I got tired of putting it together by the time I went through my blog posts to see who was visiting from the start and how frequently. You know there's only so much I can handle before I lose my senses and give up. I blog about stuff in one day. It isn't like I had been writing these for days on end. Gosh I don't have much time for this.  I very much agree with your title 'The fallacy of assumption'. Great job. Very good title to summarize how we may interact with others be it in the real world or the virtual.There's so much to learn about one's own many personal facets which takes many testing years before anyone really gets any grasp of his or herself, never mind really know from the outside in to some complete stranger. How I wrote this post, I guess I went by on the basis of how the members presents themselves here. At the end of the day, you gotta ask the question, why do most people use the internet? I'd say one important answer at least is that people want to be open themselves out to another world, in turn escaping the hustle and bustle of real life and perhaps even the judgement of the people close to us in the real world. I leave things up to you as a reader to tell me whether I'm right or wrong or neither or I could improve on it. I'm not the best judge as I'd rather not think about it too much except for what really sticks out. Not because I want to ignore the rest of the other guests in this place except maybe a few who are really obviously nasty. Rest assured that you aren't one of the the terribly nasty and rude members.  I apologize for not including every guests.  Please bear with me though that I'd planned to finish this some day before I quit blogging altogether. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/18/2009 4:42 pm |
By the way having read your suggestion, I took it and read your blog intro for the first time properly. I don't remembering ever reading your blog before except for the post. I made further comments on it which hope makes a little sense because I thought you made a good deal of sense in what you wrote. Thanks for sharing. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/18/2009 4:57 pm |
NB: [post 103317] Getting to know someone deeply from the outside in takes many many years. One step at a time ey. Enjoy every moment while it lasts. Not to think too far ahead. Wary of saying the word love in case I get jinxed. I'm most satisfied saying this word in front of the person right to their face. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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4/18/2009 5:08 pm |
I'm assured that you're very confident in the decisions you make Mr. Young. To maintain your happiness and youthful feelings doesn't depend on being with a woman for the rest of your life when you know for sure that you don't wish to deal with the drama of having a serious romantic relationship. You're most comfortable with yourself. Besides you've got the rest of your days to relax with your family, friends and enjoy the fruits of your labour to the max. Plus occasionally explore the perks benefits of having a lot of spare time to spend casually with women. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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Please begin with your idea Ricky. Maybe you can post in your blog. have a great weekend and thanks so much for dropping always lots of love its nice to be important but its more important to be nice
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hi again my beautiful friend lots of love and have a good day its nice to be important but its more important to be nice
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5/1/2009 1:03 am |
Boooo. Hope we get to read your next adventure soon. My blog post is worst than the comments. In fact, the comments are safe. One of them is only a song lyric which doesn't include any kind of profanity. i guess it's just one less adventure anyhow.
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5/1/2009 1:06 am |
Abs, forgot to reassure you that you aren't cursed. Don't worry about envy because you know your time can and will come. You just haven't met the kind of lady who is most compatible with you and wants to stick around with you for life. From what you've written so far you may have already delve into where, why and how your relationships went wrong and what went right like something you said, you did, you thought that made these women think twice about being with you. Can you pinpoint them now in order to make room for improvement? (Something to think about in your spare time) okay here's absimilliard in a nutshell. absimilliard is lazy in bed. absimilliard is generally lazy around the house. absimilliard is lazy at work. absimilliard is lazy with relationships. absimilliard is oblivious to the things going on around him. he's too lazy to mind. whatcha think arbiterJane?
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5/1/2009 8:54 am |
actually, there's a long line of women just outside my front door waiting to get it with the absimilliard legend, most of them i guess wants to stick around but absimilliard is very particular with women. so there. fault one. okay here's absimilliard in a nutshell. absimilliard is lazy in bed. absimilliard is generally lazy around the house. absimilliard is lazy at work. absimilliard is lazy with relationships. absimilliard is oblivious to the things going on around him. he's too lazy to mind. whatcha think arbiterJane? -Is there any way you can be less lazy and put more effort? -Do you really care at this stage in your life? -Do you really feel you're ready to enter another romantic relationship? -Do you love yourself enough to love someone else? -Do you think you can put your needs and interests aside and care about someone else as much as yourself? -Can you put individual differences aside? -Can you look past ugly habits? If you aren't then you should think twice about going in half-heartedly. You'll either break each other's hearts or both. Moreover, sometimes people romance each other just because it's convenient or whatever. Clearly the answers lies in you. It ain't easy to answer and there are no guarantees that any of our relationships will lasts for a lifetime, but your attitude and your partner's behaviour will affect how long you will stay together. There are also external factors such as making time to spend quality time with each other in between very busy schedules. Ask questions and answer them brutally and honestly. Cariño brutal (tough love). Rest assured, I ask myself these questions too. Thoughts for you to ponder. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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5/1/2009 9:08 am |
Thanks very much for your visits dudes Ricky, Schoen and Abs. Of course I remember you Schoen. How is your new job? Does it feel more fulfilling than the last job? Hope you don't mind what I wrote which is based on your own public comments. Members like yourselves make blogging fun. Eeek this blog is probably viewed only because I talk too much. I appreciate that you can look past my silly replies to you in return for your funny comments. I'll thank you now while I have a chance. My time in epep is nearly over, On a side note, pearl how appropriate.  My birthstone which is pretty common in my country of birth. awww  within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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5/3/2009 11:37 pm |
Like the saying goes if you have the will...in your case you'll need a very strong will. When you do find this will to want to do something, you'll find a way to improve yourself when you really want to however and whenever you need to. -Is there any way you can be less lazy and put more effort? -Do you really care at this stage in your life? -Do you really feel you're ready to enter another romantic relationship? -Do you love yourself enough to love someone else? -Do you think you can put your needs and interests aside and care about someone else as much as yourself? -Can you put individual differences aside? -Can you look past ugly habits? If you aren't then you should think twice about going in half-heartedly. You'll either break each other's hearts or both. Moreover, sometimes people romance each other just because it's convenient or whatever. Clearly the answers lies in you. It ain't easy to answer and there are no guarantees that any of our relationships will lasts for a lifetime, but your attitude and your partner's behaviour will affect how long you will stay together. There are also external factors such as making time to spend quality time with each other in between very busy schedules. Ask questions and answer them brutally and honestly. Cariño brutal (tough love). Rest assured, I ask myself these questions too. Thoughts for you to ponder. Is there any way you can be less lazy and put more effort? -absimilliard's IQ is off the charts. if there were ways, he'd've already figured it out. (talk about ego, eh?) Do you really care at this stage in your life? -absimilliard has given up trying. Do you really feel you're ready to enter another romantic relationship? -absimilliard is always ready. Do you love yourself enough to love someone else? -i think by now people know absimilliard loves himself too much. Do you think you can put your needs and interests aside and care about someone else as much as yourself? -hmm.. like.. a caring person? oh god, this is hard. Can you put individual differences aside? -of course. absimilliard understands everything. but what absimilliard wants, everybody likes. Can you look past ugly habits? -surely, because absimilliard is an angel of mercy and forgiveness. to absimilliard, everything is beautiful. honest. If you aren't then you should think twice about going in half-heartedly. -absimilliard doesn't have a heart. it has been replaced by a slew of hydraulic parts and animatronics due to atrophy. You'll either break each other's hearts or both. -i'll break mine instead. i'm too selfless. i'm a saint. Moreover, sometimes people romance each other just because it's convenient or whatever. -actually, women romance me because they think i'm some kind of avatar of love come to rescue damsels in distress. i'm the victim here. .....anyhow, i thank you, dear jane. for your sensibility. i may attempt quick hits at your questions but.. i do think about the things you've asked. i would've said yes to all of them. not because the right answer is yes, but because i've learnt my lesson well already, and that i cannot afford to lose anymore. i'm too old for that. i'd marry the first dame that walks up to me and says i'm her destiny.
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5/4/2009 12:56 pm |
Why wouldn't I notice any of you makulet guys? By the way kuya J, Ms. Blue was asking during the weekend what happened to you? Couldn't give her any clear answer because I've no idea where you've disappeared to, how are ya? What have you been up to? Maybe you should give her a buzz huh some time soon.   within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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5/4/2009 1:06 pm |
So Abs have you considered entering Mensa Philippines or are you already a member? On a side note, how is your kiddo? To conclude, I wish you the very best from the deep dark depth from the bottom hole of my cold heart on finding your lovely dame. I sure hope she accepts you too for all that you are, your identity, ego and the superego of a demi-god and not to mention the rest of your personalities. Yeh I darn well mean this and to the rest of the geek overlords having trouble getting la*d (not including yourself).God bless you Abs and kuya J. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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5/16/2009 5:37 pm |
Hahaha Ms. Blue can read your comment for herself. She is taking a break away from blogging kuya J. Rest assured, she'll be watching. Enjoy your vacation. You're welcome to share with us about your trip. Stay safe and have fun.  within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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5/29/2009 8:53 am |
eheheh Thanks tinker. I know why your post is very delayed. within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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