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Ugly Trend ...I don't know about the others, but ever since I joined this website, I'd say, 75% of the time, each time a guy writes to me, they "invite" me to visit their place, instead of them wanting or hinting to visit mine. What has happened to the world?...To me, this is a BIG TURN OFF... I still believe that it is a man's role to make a woman feel wanted, desired, and sought after. There are so many decent women here in FFF and in my honest opinion, once a very good communication has been established, men should make that initiative to meet...On the other hand, if it is impractical to visit neither places, the next best thing to do is to meet halfway. ...I had encountered in the past, that men offered to pay for airfare, but in exchange, they'd want me to stay in their place..I know, you'd say, it's an "adult" decision, but I am not crazy yet to do just that  ...For trusted male friends, I won't refuse to do that, specially if we meet as a group, but visiting men, just to hook up?...HE'S GOT TO BE REALLY SPECIAL  ...What I'm saying is, this is what is happening here in the USA, for I'm sure, the men here who like to pursue relationships with women there in RP, sure have to travel (that is a given, since most of the women there don't even have a visa to enter the USA)just to meet them. ...May I hear some comments from all of you?  Just call me ELZ  |
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6/29/2008 7:10 am |
Very simple, if you dont want to, don't accept or don't go! Tell them, first meeting is in your home town and they stay in a hotel, ALONE. . . or if you want to visit them, tell them. . you will go and stay in a hotel, ALONE. OR. . meet in a mutual city and have separate hotel rooms. If the couple gets along, it doesn't matter where it is, they will get it on! right?
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.. maybe men are wary of the women they meet online bcoz in some instances there have been rumors of third party criminal involvement with such arranged meetings ( which could be also true the other way around )<< too much television viewing of law&order & wanted lolz .. some men think they are worth the trouble  .. most men who join sites like FFF are usually planning to take a vacation in exotic places where their dollar will go a long way & where they can get away with their sexual fantasy adventure bcoz money is above the law (corruption)or just plainly " they think they can get away with it!" with careful planning  .. maybe they think that people who use the internet in search of a partner are "desperate" & will go to any lengths to hook up  .. there is no intention in his part to make any serious connections -- just having fun with as many as he can & trying to spend as less!
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6/29/2008 9:31 am |
that is totally outside my  .Have a nice day ! 
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generally speaking men are manipulative creatures...some men will do anything to entice or convince the other person to go along with his ideas...there are some women who will take advantage such ideas... ElZ always be selective and catious at all times...if you believe they have suspicious intentions just delete them...there are so many undesirable people lurking around in the cyberspace...and watch out for those people who don't post their photos in singles websites...
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.. maybe men are wary of the women they meet online bcoz in some instances there have been rumors of third party criminal involvement with such arranged meetings ( which could be also true the other way around )<< too much television viewing of law&order & wanted lolz .. some men think they are worth the trouble .. most men who join sites like FFF are usually planning to take a vacation in exotic places where their dollar will go a long way & where they can get away with their sexual fantasy adventure bcoz money is above the law (corruption)or just plainly " they think they can get away with it!" with careful planning .. maybe they think that people who use the internet in search of a partner are "desperate" & will go to any lengths to hook up .. there is no intention in his part to make any serious connections -- just having fun with as many as he can & trying to spend as less!
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6/29/2008 11:38 am |
Inviting me to his place/country?For the first meeting/date?Nevahhh!even i have Polish visa(so i can travel all europe)Big nevvvvaaah! meet me to my homeland,first. That rediculous idea make me grrrrr!!! peace! 
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6/29/2008 11:47 am |
somehow,i cant blame them/foreigners,whatever the reasons are,the flirtations here on FFF are open loud...its up to us to explain or elaborate or what soever that not all filipina in here are "tut tut".n**b!
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6/29/2008 11:47 am |
To visit a woman to just hook up is wow, a big risk! What if you two dont get along? To me, start with drinks or coffee and if you get along, dinner . then desert. . but to hook up on the first date. . it's either LOVE AT FIRST SITE or JUST BEING RISKY. . .
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6/29/2008 1:15 pm |
Very simple, if you dont want to, don't accept or don't go! Tell them, first meeting is in your home town and they stay in a hotel, ALONE. . . or if you want to visit them, tell them. . you will go and stay in a hotel, ALONE. OR. . meet in a mutual city and have separate hotel rooms. If the couple gets along, it doesn't matter where it is, they will get it on! right? Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 1:16 pm |
But, you have a very good suggestion...He stays where he is, and I stay in a hotel and/or vice-versa... Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 1:18 pm |
.. maybe men are wary of the women they meet online bcoz in some instances there have been rumors of third party criminal involvement with such arranged meetings ( which could be also true the other way around )<< too much television viewing of law&order & wanted lolz .. some men think they are worth the trouble .. most men who join sites like FFF are usually planning to take a vacation in exotic places where their dollar will go a long way & where they can get away with their sexual fantasy adventure bcoz money is above the law (corruption)or just plainly " they think they can get away with it!" with careful planning .. maybe they think that people who use the internet in search of a partner are "desperate" & will go to any lengths to hook up .. there is no intention in his part to make any serious connections -- just having fun with as many as he can & trying to spend as less! Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 1:19 pm |
And really, I am not desperate then, not now, and I hope not tomorrow! Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 1:19 pm |
that is totally outside my . Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 1:24 pm |
generally speaking men are manipulative creatures...some men will do anything to entice or convince the other person to go along with his ideas...there are some women who will take advantage such ideas... ElZ always be selective and catious at all times...if you believe they have suspicious intentions just delete them...there are so many undesirable people lurking around in the cyberspace...and watch out for those people who don't post their photos in singles websites... Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 1:26 pm |
Sense, majority of men who joins fff are foreigners such countries as Canada, USA, Australia. UK, Europe etc...i believe they joined this website for many reasons...so many fff filipina members are marketing their Hot Bodies thru this websites...many foreigners likes to go to third world countries for their sexual fantasies and few are seeking for lifetime partners...due to poor economic situation like the philippines, peoples mind can be aesily be manipulated and corrupted by foreign currency...  Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 1:27 pm |
But, I know, that there are still quite a number of nice and genuine guys who really intend to find their lifetime partner here ...they maybe not my match, but somebody else's Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 5:45 pm |
Elz, Been one of those going off to see coz they bought the plane tickets. But, known them for 4yrs. Still though always be very cautious. [I God is pure love...
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6/29/2008 6:17 pm |
Mr. K-K, of course, in fairness, it's not about ALL men, but I'd say that in my own experiences here at FFF, it's been 75% (more or less) that MEN desire to be visited. I've got 2 valid interpretations for this, specially if they don't offer to pay for the airfare. They want to meet me in person, see what is there to gain about the meeting, and not having to spend money, and/or get the FREEBIES, regardless. ...Feeling "sinuswerte" ba?  Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 6:20 pm |
Inviting me to his place/country?For the first meeting/date?Nevahhh!even i have Polish visa(so i can travel all europe)Big nevvvvaaah! meet me to my homeland,first. That rediculous idea make me grrrrr!!! peace! Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 6:22 pm |
somehow,i cant blame them/foreigners,whatever the reasons are,the flirtations here on FFF are open loud...its up to us to explain or elaborate or what soever that not all filipina in here are "tut tut".n**b! Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 6:23 pm |
To visit a woman to just hook up is wow, a big risk! What if you two dont get along? To me, start with drinks or coffee and if you get along, dinner . then desert. . but to hook up on the first date. . it's either LOVE AT FIRST SITE or JUST BEING RISKY. . . Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 6:29 pm |
Well, I've met a couple of male friends in person, after at least 6 months of email exchanges and telephone calls, and meeting in a neutral place.And even if I invited that person inside my hotel suite, I was guaranteed of 100% respect. Usually, the visit was with either our families or common friends. At least, I felt very safe and at the same time, I had my own privacy. Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 6:31 pm |
A sweet friend like you is always on my mind too! Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 6:32 pm |
Elz, Been one of those going off to see coz they bought the plane tickets. But, known them for 4yrs. Still though always be very cautious. Just call me ELZ
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6/29/2008 7:03 pm |
Mr. BTBD, that is exactly what I have been doing...REFUSING, AND EVENTUALLY IGNORING those kind of invites including the members.. Good Luck!
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