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My Number One Rival.... ...This is the first time I am talking about it openly here at FFF...And I know, in the past, I have mentioned about just how my only / wanted to get out of our house and live on his own, not to be simply independent, but to be free from house rules...He was still a when he reunited with me here in TX, and as a loving parent, I only want the best for him, and it comes with rules...So, right after he passed the RN-licensure, he got himself a job and took off! ...But little did I mention that there is this SPECIAL GIRL in his life who's the culprit and wants him for herself, whenever she wants to, and in her own terms...  She could not stay beyond midnight while my kiddo was with me, she could not display anything "unacceptable", nor show any kind of control for my while he was under my roof, for obvious reasons: MY HOUSE, MY RULES...Would you believe, at that time, early in the morning, she would be at our house ringing our doorbell, panicky, just because my turned off his cellphone? Would you believe my , could not even go with me to attend important gatherings because either she is jealous of me, or jealous that he would be with other girls?The solution, she had to tag-along!  Would you believe that she wouldn't want my to eat the food that I prepared only because she brought him food from outside?...Well, you better believe it, because that's the way things were...while he was with me... ...Now, things are different. Although they are not living together, he has his own place, and they have more privacy and freedom to run their lives as they please.. They maybe acting like CAT and for the most part, but they are growing together and learning more responsibilities. Pretty soon, she will be a nurse too. And I am the type of a mother who wants to see her happy. And he is happy with her...That's all that matters to me...Is she still my number one rival? I would say yes to that, but only because WE BOTH LOVE THE SAME MAN...Other than that, I am thankful that she makes him happy...As it is, ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR...   Just call me ELZ  |
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elz... i understand how it feels...the difference is my son's ex and present gf's are all scared of me...i can be a real witch with just a look...  he is to me the only man i may not love for the rest of his life but whom i will surely love for the rest of my mine...
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3/19/2009 8:56 am |
hehehehehe...maybe i will feel the same as yours when the time comes that my only son will introduce me the girl of his life... hehehe for now, i am enjoying his company A healthy friendship changes and grows ‒ i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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3/19/2009 8:59 am |
elz... i understand how it feels...the difference is my son's ex and present gf's are all scared of me...i can be a real witch with just a look... he is to me the only man i may not love for the rest of his life but whom i will surely love for the rest of my mine... A healthy friendship changes and grows ‒ i.e. it is dynamic. How do we know if it is alive or not? It must be growing and changing constantly. A healthy friendship will encourage personal growth as well as allow both parties to explore safely with new ideas and experiences.
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3/19/2009 10:43 am |
elz... i understand how it feels...the difference is my son's ex and present gf's are all scared of me...i can be a real witch with just a look... he is to me the only man i may not love for the rest of his life but whom i will surely love for the rest of my mine...  Just call me ELZ
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3/19/2009 10:46 am |
hehehehehe...maybe i will feel the same as yours when the time comes that my only son will introduce me the girl of his life... hehehe for now, i am enjoying his company Just call me ELZ
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3/19/2009 10:49 am |
hahahahahaha... teach me how to be a real witch Liz so that when that time comes, i know what to do with my son's girl...lol... actually, just the thought of it, am a very jealous mom! lol Just call me ELZ
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i remember the first time i saw my son with a girl. i came home from work and i found him on the sofa watching tv, his head on the lap of the girl and she was caressing/scratching his head or something. it hurts! i i was the one who used to do that but nothing compares with the panic i felt when my daughter first came home with a boy and he touched her shoulder in front of me. i thought i was ready to commit mrder! if it wasn't for my son, i'm pretty sure i would have done something i will regret later on. ~ Jolielaide 
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3/19/2009 7:11 pm |
i remember the first time i saw my son with a girl. i came home from work and i found him on the sofa watching tv, his head on the lap of the girl and she was caressing/scratching his head or something. it hurts! i i was the one who used to do that but nothing compares with the panic i felt when my daughter first came home with a boy and he touched her shoulder in front of me. i thought i was ready to commit mrder! if it wasn't for my son, i'm pretty sure i would have done something i will regret later on. Just call me ELZ
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3/20/2009 3:32 am |
Oh no!  ..Not yet!...I guess, they will have to wait till both of them are really stable...They still live separate lives, and she is still to graduate in Nursing this Fall...I'd say, they'll be ready in couple of years or so...Godwilling..Thanks for the visit, Trish!  Just call me ELZ
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3/22/2009 8:03 am |
I see  , so this is why mom asks for more hugs, kisses and affection.She likes to be constantly reassured because she knows that she has to share me now with a man. How are you Ate Elz?     within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/22/2009 8:04 am |
I could see the resemblance between you and your son from your pic.  within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.
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3/22/2009 7:19 pm |
I see , so this is why mom asks for more hugs, kisses and affection.She likes to be constantly reassured because she knows that she has to share me now with a man. How are you Ate Elz? ..Mom needs to be reassured of a big space in your heart..Just call me ELZ
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3/22/2009 7:20 pm |
I could see the resemblance between you and your son from your pic. Just call me ELZ
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3/24/2009 6:25 pm |
Is the feeling for daughters the same as with sons?i mean just curious coz i have 3 girls,2 both finished their college(not like the pasaway mom.lol)and the youngest a 3rd year nursing student.I left them 15 years ago in the care of my very loving relatives(my side) for their future and i got my very wish which is their college degrees.I'm pretty mellow about rules but if they break it..no turning back.I have set a rule too and they knows the limitation.One thing is,it's hard to be a mother if you are away.
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3/24/2009 7:10 pm |
Is the feeling for daughters the same as with sons? i mean just curious coz i have 3 girls,2 both finished their college(not like the pasaway mom.lol)and the youngest a 3rd year nursing student.I left them 15 years ago in the care of my very loving relatives(my side) for their future and i got my very wish which is their college degrees.I'm pretty mellow about rules but if they break it..no turning back.I have set a rule too and they knows the limitation.One thing is,it's hard to be a mother if you are away.Just call me ELZ
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3/29/2009 3:33 am |
How about your Meliza, CAT? Just call me ELZ
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3/29/2009 10:34 am |
Marriage is not easy, and my kid knows about that...I don't blame them to just enjoy their company...They're still young anyway... Just call me ELZ
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