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salami252001 45F
560 posts
6/17/2008 9:32 pm

Last Read:
7/7/2008 4:29 am

confuse and lost w/ reason


at this moment I am totally confuse, I have figure out that the moment I resign in my job, I can start the things I want to do..yet I dont know why, I cannot find any enthusiasm, any purpose that I dont where to begin.

My depression sets in and its getting worst..I join other activities helping other ppl in that way, I wont be focusing w/ my life..but I cannot possible be in service helping other ppl 24/7...that being alone, really scare the hell out of me. My friends have their own job, own life..and here I am going to 30's and I am back to stage one.. the friends I use to talk too, I seem to be losing all of them, they seem all so busy, I just feel neglected..and I dont know where to start..waaaaahh...i feel emotionally wreck..but at least i'm starting to write again..those few months while I was in China..i am so uninspired..so depressive to the point I hardly join any forum, blogging or group discussion..i just lost any reason.

hana_byuti 45F
362 posts
6/17/2008 9:54 pm

JUST DONT GIVE UP, HOLD ON AND PRAY THAT EVERYTHING WOULD BE SETTLED


Airhead888 43F

6/17/2008 9:59 pm

I hear you on this... Truly, I do as I'm also in a slump. Welcome to the club! It is indeed difficult to start a new chapter in your life when you have just ended the last one.


12malt46 78F
406 posts
6/17/2008 10:06 pm

Keep on praying and one day you'll receive what you're asking for.Don't lose hope keep on trying.


odette317 61F
1312 posts
6/18/2008 4:18 am

I think we all pass through a stage of feeling "dryness" in almost everything we do, but it's just a matter of choice, I'm glad you're back to writing blogs and hope you get back the enthusiasm.


Follow your dreams... and hit the mark.


jane82 110F

6/18/2008 6:56 am

Hello my dear friend Jac.

It will take some time to figure things out.

This is my year for doing one area that I need to improve on. Everything else seems to have worked itself out.

Happy to see you around and chatting again. See you again some day.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


SeNsE_of_HoNeY 49F
4829 posts
6/18/2008 7:59 am

i also get depress once in a while but that is how you begin to balance your life in a way bcoz you are forced to do something to get back on track.. don't worry & just do what you have to do & the rest will take care of itself.. writing is most fun when you have to be by yourself so start your blogs again.. cya around girl!TC


jane82 110F

6/18/2008 8:42 am

If you're around, you will not feel neglected.

Take good care of yourself sis and try to enjoy yourself anyway.
Sing your blues away and pray.



within each one of us, and let it begin with me (and each one of us)..one breath at a time.


salami252001 45F
470 posts
6/20/2008 4:15 am

    Quoting hana_byuti:
    JUST DONT GIVE UP, HOLD ON AND PRAY THAT EVERYTHING WOULD BE SETTLED
thank you sis for dropping by, i really appreciated the encouraging word and the advise.. hope u take care also..


salami252001 45F
470 posts
6/20/2008 4:26 am

    Quoting Airhead888:
    I hear you on this... Truly, I do as I'm also in a slump. Welcome to the club! It is indeed difficult to start a new chapter in your life when you have just ended the last one.
lolz, they say "misery loves company". maybe we can open a club..heheh, just kidding..we shud lighten up and joke (even its not funny) for the sake of keeping our sanity..or else we go crazy..I do believe, if we dont focus to much of the problem..but instead just keep ourself bc.

i've seen a slogan stated "if you have time to worry, u also have time to solve" and i do agree on it.


salami252001 45F
470 posts
6/20/2008 4:29 am

    Quoting 12malt46:
    Keep on praying and one day you'll receive what you're asking for.Don't lose hope keep on trying.
thank you for the encouraging words sis.. may God bless u..


salami252001 45F
470 posts
6/20/2008 4:31 am

    Quoting odette317:
    I think we all pass through a stage of feeling "dryness" in almost everything we do, but it's just a matter of choice, I'm glad you're back to writing blogs and hope you get back the enthusiasm.

thank you for dropping by in my blog sis..i do agree w/ u.. i think once in awhile every person go thru it.. it just on how we handle it. yes, i was worried..but now, i'm trying to be active in blogging and posting..hoping to overcome my depression..b4 it helps..i hope it can also overcome again..Hope u have a nice weekend.


salami252001 45F
470 posts
6/20/2008 5:09 am

    Quoting jane82:
    Hello my dear friend Jac.

    It will take some time to figure things out.

    This is my year for doing one area that I need to improve on. Everything else seems to have worked itself out.

    Happy to see you around and chatting again. See you again some day.
Hello Sis jane.. happy to chat u in ym, so great to c u sis. Hope we can chat again. I really enjoy having u.

I'm happy to hear that all are doing well.. and ur right..maybe we just need time to figure out.. after all life is a journey..not a distination.

Hope u take care of urself..keep me update, k..u take care,sis.


salami252001 45F
470 posts
6/20/2008 5:14 am

    Quoting SeNsE_of_HoNeY:
    i also get depress once in a while but that is how you begin to balance your life in a way bcoz you are forced to do something to get back on track.. don't worry & just do what you have to do & the rest will take care of itself.. writing is most fun when you have to be by yourself so start your blogs again.. cya around girl!TC
Thank you for dropping by sis.. its been a long time I havent blogging and posting in FFF. Its really good to c members dropping by in my blog..at least i know i'm not alone. true..I will sis, I will stop worrying and just keep myself busy..

I agree, blogging and posting before gives me clarity as well as emotional theraphy..lolz, i hope this time i can rejuvinate again my enthusiasm of posting and blogging.

k sis, u take care then..hope to c u again..happy weekend


salami252001 45F
470 posts
6/20/2008 5:16 am

    Quoting jane82:
    If you're around, you will not feel neglected.

    Take good care of yourself sis and try to enjoy yourself anyway.
    Sing your blues away and pray.
thank you Jane for being a frend.. and for being always visiting my blog and posting wise and encouraging words..really mean alot sis...I will try sis.. thanks!