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Single Mothers; Are They Available? While I was reading the las entry of my friend Bellezia, about her personal life, and was thinking how much of her day life, her work is taking, then all her (night) home life is given to her (lilman) as she loves to call him, I started thinking, whether these great single mothers are really "available" for a relationship and commitment or not! What does a woman have of a time, caring or even any sort of attention she gives to any other man when all her daily life is busy with her work, and then all what comes after is devoted to her /? then again, what if she felling love with someone who can only accept to have her relocated to him, as a result of his work and life circumstances?!! Some women may say w can arrange it for our to stay somewhere with their grand folks or some relatives, but then it is another way of struggling for the mother who left her to settle with a man who supposed to be a lover, husband and a friend! Many questions will be filling her little brain thinking what if ....and what if so!! This eventually make me wonder if single mothers are really available to be involved in a serious relationship with a guy who supposed to be a new comer knocking her their private life's door at the middle of the night!  |
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never underestimate the capacity of someone's heart...specially that of a woman when she's in love...
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9/12/2008 8:41 am |
if in case she fell in love... (with an alien ... like you  )you have to relocate to be with her  not her ...to be with you    
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if there is real love between two people, i believe that each one will try to help & support the other in taking care of the children of a previous marriage.. i am talking as a single mom (separated on the verge of divorce) with teenaged kids & involved in a relationship with a younger man who could get any woman he wants but i guess has decided he can handle a package deal even after he realized during the first year that we are a "handful" lolz.. it is not that one party went into the situation blindfolded that you do not know what you are getting into, duhhh! it takes a special kind of man with an above average sensitivity & personality to be able to handle difficult situations with teenagers from another marriage.. nothing is impossible for two people in love although i admit that even at this point in our relationship, i still keep a part of me in reserve.. correct me if i'm wrong but i sense your blog speaks of only one side of a relationship which is what a man can take from a single mom in terms of service & pleasure which strikes me as chauvenistic! TC
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never underestimate the capacity of someone's heart...specially that of a woman when she's in love...
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9/12/2008 9:17 am |
acceptance is the answer sulei single mothers need someone who will love them truly, if someone comes he should accept her no matter what. single mom is no different wid single women they need love and care...we need all to love and beloved.. IamALwaYs Hapi,kNowiNgDAt iAmEasilyPLeaSEd
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9/12/2008 12:48 pm |
Easy solution Sulie.  Don't  date a woman with kids because you are only asking for trouble at your age. Just my 2 cents worth friend. What are you doing when you lose the most track of time? This is what you should spend the most time doing. 
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9/12/2008 4:31 pm |
never underestimate the capacity of someone's heart...specially that of a woman when she's in love...  Just call me ELZ 
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9/12/2008 4:32 pm |
if there is real love between two people, i believe that each one will try to help & support the other in taking care of the children of a previous marriage.. i am talking as a single mom (separated on the verge of divorce) with teenaged kids & involved in a relationship with a younger man who could get any woman he wants but i guess has decided he can handle a package deal even after he realized during the first year that we are a "handful" lolz.. it is not that one party went into the situation blindfolded that you do not know what you are getting into, duhhh! it takes a special kind of man with an above average sensitivity & personality to be able to handle difficult situations with teenagers from another marriage.. nothing is impossible for two people in love although i admit that even at this point in our relationship, i still keep a part of me in reserve.. correct me if i'm wrong but i sense your blog speaks of only one side of a relationship which is what a man can take from a single mom in terms of service & pleasure which strikes me as chauvenistic! TC  Just call me ELZ
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9/12/2008 4:33 pm |
And by the way, Sulei...I am a Single Mom, and Available...Just waiting for the right guy to come along...And I believe he is NOT HERE in FFF Just call me ELZ
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9/12/2008 4:34 pm |
If he is here, well, he already missed his chance... Just call me ELZ
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Easy solution Sulie. Don't date a woman with kids because you are only asking for trouble at your age. Just my 2 cents worth friend. u think that is the solution? well, thanks anyway!
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as a matter of fact, i wished when I wrote this piece, that no sigle mom, woud take it against her in person! I don't mean any harm to the single moms! on the contrary, you all rememer my blog praising single mothers written few months ago, and till readable here! I only meant, and was amazed how a single mother sacrifieces, and yet she as the right in life to love and be loved! but was ondering how would she compromises when it comes to prioritizing her life between her guy and her kids!
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if in case she fell in love... (with an alien ... like you )you have to relocate to be with her not her ...to be with you
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if there is real love between two people, i believe that each one will try to help & support the other in taking care of the children of a previous marriage.. i am talking as a single mom (separated on the verge of divorce) with teenaged kids & involved in a relationship with a younger man who could get any woman he wants but i guess has decided he can handle a package deal even after he realized during the first year that we are a "handful" lolz.. it is not that one party went into the situation blindfolded that you do not know what you are getting into, duhhh! it takes a special kind of man with an above average sensitivity & personality to be able to handle difficult situations with teenagers from another marriage.. nothing is impossible for two people in love although i admit that even at this point in our relationship, i still keep a part of me in reserve.. correct me if i'm wrong but i sense your blog speaks of only one side of a relationship which is what a man can take from a single mom in terms of service & pleasure which strikes me as chauvenistic! TC and yes, u r wrong in ur conclusion! inever meant how to get the best of woman as a comodity, but how to help her make the best decision in her life!
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acceptance is the answer sulei single mothers need someone who will love them truly, if someone comes he should accept her no matter what. single mom is no different wid single women they need love and care...we need all to love and beloved..
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Mr. autumnbreeze, thanks for the great addition! I needed such a statement! and i do agree totaly with how u dealt with the situation!
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thank you ver much for your thoughts! hope all single mothers think in such a way, and i do admire them for the hard job they take on their responsibility!
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Liz, thanks for putting words into my mouth...
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Good point, Hon!
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And by the way, Sulei...I am a Single Mom, and Available...Just waiting for the right guy to come along...And I believe he is NOT HERE in FFF
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If he is here, well, he already missed his chance...
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Jane, very logic! hope all women think the same way!
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as a matter of fact, i wished when I wrote this piece, that no sigle mom, woud take it against her in person! I don't mean any harm to the single moms! on the contrary, you all rememer my blog praising single mothers written few months ago, and till readable here! I only meant, and was amazed how a single mother sacrifieces, and yet she as the right in life to love and be loved! but was ondering how would she compromises when it comes to prioritizing her life between her guy and her kids!
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Easy solution Sulie. Don't date a woman with kids because you are only asking for trouble at your age. Just my 2 cents worth friend.
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wow! am impressed! u gur talk serious when u wanna talk!
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