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Her Mind  

Sulei

4/15/2011 8:25 am

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5/30/2011 8:42 pm

For years I know her!
Since I joined this site!
For ages I sailed into her mind, trying to understand!
For decades I put my spirit aside, neglected my reason, and denied my feelings trying to be a "third" person, in order to explore her reality, invade her brain, and at times, I admit that I was so excited by the thought of her mind!

The reluctant decent man in me, was always the obstacle!

At time, I knew she needed longer time to be ready to listen! And I thought I were the one having an ocean of patience for her! Yet, I admit now, that women do not mean what they say now!

My fault was, I did not read between the lines!
and instead of attacking her big walled castle, and demolishing all the walls between us, I played the role of the noble gentleman!

Women do not always mean literally what they say at times, specially when it comes to their feeling and desires!
It is not because they lie or not honest, but the "child" in them makes them eager to see the utmost in us men!

How many times, and in how many occasions, a beautiful love story see its end in no time, just because we men, don't know how the language of the "child" in them!
And only the dark nights know their truth, witnessing the shower of their tears!
Whereas, we, men, hurry back to our caves, creating poems for an imaginary lost lovers instead of letting our horses invade their loneliness!

Women remain, our source of inspiration, and our great obstacle when we fail to understand!!


Sulei
8042 posts 

4/15/2011 4:08 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    in my point of view you did the right thing
    not all women are cryptic
    once and a while you will met a few who mean exactly what they say
    and gentlemen are always appreciated in most circumstances
    but then again... in every rule there is an exception
are you the exception, bebs?

aloofa
1394 posts 

4/15/2011 4:49 pm

Sulei!...Some women say what they mean and mean what they say!

Some men tend to view things differently from the women. Some women,too, can be more complex and read far more into things than men do. Chances are, if a man says something, that's exactly how he meant it, whereas, the woman on the other hand, will say something and mean it in a different way, hoping the guy can read into what she said. Sadly not the case though!

Do away with that obstacle and go to her!! Relationships are challenging enough w/o playing a guessing game to figure out what the other is thinking!

catchmefucan07
186 posts 

4/16/2011 2:00 am

I always mean when I spill out words!!! Hi Sulei

light74
17 posts 

4/16/2011 2:23 am

one's mind???

cyntherea39
943 posts 

4/16/2011 4:57 am

Oh well "WOMEN" as they are. Who wanted to understand
them anyway? I myself is unpredictable .


"weird words in a bizarre world"

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/16/2011 5:43 am

    Quoting aloofa:
    Sulei!...Some women say what they mean and mean what they say!

    Some men tend to view things differently from the women. Some women,too, can be more complex and read far more into things than men do. Chances are, if a man says something, that's exactly how he meant it, whereas, the woman on the other hand, will say something and mean it in a different way, hoping the guy can read into what she said. Sadly not the case though!

    Do away with that obstacle and go to her!! Relationships are challenging enough w/o playing a guessing game to figure out what the other is thinking!
aloofa, so true! thanks for elaborating! u always makes a difference with ur comments! have a nice weekend!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/16/2011 5:45 am

    Quoting SweetGirl926:
    "Women do not always mean literally what they say at times, specially when it comes to their feeling and desires!It is not because they lie or not honest, but the "child" in them makes them eager to see the utmost in us men!" ... this is true to me this past few days..

    i have been avoiding his indirect invitation. now I'm being straight, i felt awful inviting directly a guy for a date..
sweet, the thing is, there is no right or wrong in such a case! it is personal reaction and preference! it has to do with our within nature! thanks for ur visit, and wish u a happy weekend!

jean112
2192 posts 

4/16/2011 3:04 pm

your talking about the gypsy girl?

the most beautiful thing cannot be seen...u must feel it.

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/16/2011 3:45 pm

    Quoting Bebong2010:
    i always mean what i say except in jest
i never known u as a jester, bebs!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/16/2011 3:47 pm

    Quoting jean112:
    your talking about the gypsy girl?
I never doubted your cleverness, jean!

jean112
2192 posts 

4/16/2011 4:42 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    I never doubted your cleverness, jean!
i admit i miss the story about that girl.

the most beautiful thing cannot be seen...u must feel it.

lickquid
4361 posts 

4/16/2011 5:13 pm

They live in our mind when we love them true
and can make our world a heaven or hell,
with just a cross word they ruin our day
and then with a smile they make it well.


Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/16/2011 6:10 pm

    Quoting jean112:
    i admit i miss the story about that girl.
who knows! we might resume it again when time is tipe for it!

TessRb
4318 posts 

4/17/2011 9:15 am

Sulei,

Just tell it how it is. And see where it leads you w/o beating around the bush. Happy Sunday...

Never mind love stay clear away from me...never wanting to fall in love again!!!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/17/2011 10:44 am

    Quoting TessRb:
    Sulei,

    Just tell it how it is. And see where it leads you w/o beating around the bush. Happy Sunday...
thanks Tess! I always listen with great attention to what u say!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/17/2011 6:08 pm

    Quoting lickquid:
    They live in our mind when we love them true
    and can make our world a heaven or hell,
    with just a cross word they ruin our day
    and then with a smile they make it well.

hello bro Lickquid, very true and well said bro!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/17/2011 6:09 pm

    Quoting catchmefucan07:
    I always mean when I spill out words!!! Hi Sulei
hello catch! nice to hear that, and nice to see u here too!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/17/2011 6:11 pm

the expression or the concept?

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/17/2011 6:13 pm

    Quoting cyntherea39:
    Oh well "WOMEN" as they are. Who wanted to understand
    them anyway? I myself is unpredictable .

Mel, we can only try, and there is nothing guaranteed!

eb1209
24592 posts

4/17/2011 10:13 pm

    Quoting aloofa:
    Sulei!...Some women say what they mean and mean what they say!

    Some men tend to view things differently from the women. Some women,too, can be more complex and read far more into things than men do. Chances are, if a man says something, that's exactly how he meant it, whereas, the woman on the other hand, will say something and mean it in a different way, hoping the guy can read into what she said. Sadly not the case though!

    Do away with that obstacle and go to her!! Relationships are challenging enough w/o playing a guessing game to figure out what the other is thinking!
I am that woman! ....I always mean what I say...and say what I mean...

Just call me ELZ, click eb1209

eb1209
24592 posts

4/17/2011 10:15 pm

Sulei, I don't want men to be harsh on me...I don't want them to my mind...I want then to "Make love to my mind"... and I blogged about it long time ago..

Just call me ELZ, click eb1209

eb1209
24592 posts

4/17/2011 10:16 pm

Take it easy on me, guys... I'm FRAGILE!...Please handle me with care!

Just call me ELZ, click eb1209

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/18/2011 3:17 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    I am that woman! ....I always mean what I say...and say what I mean...
i know that Elz. i am aware of it!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/18/2011 3:20 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Sulei, I don't want men to be harsh on me...I don't want them to my mind...I want then to "Make love to my mind"... and I blogged about it long time ago..
Elz, in your case, i don't think one needs to ur mind even if it is virgin, because it is very clear! it will be much easier making love to it!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/18/2011 3:21 am

    Quoting eb1209:
    Take it easy on me, guys... I'm FRAGILE!...Please handle me with care!
soft heart, or soft bones, Elz?

Shadownight2
204 posts 

4/30/2011 4:01 pm

Sulei hallo what a wonderful words in mindmmmmmmm..well the language of love come to our deepest heart..and if I say it I mean it..and I spoke comes from my heart not only from my mouthlove means,sincerity,purity,honesty,faithfulness.etc..etc.etc..but we need to Be true to our selves..like what I say in my blogtakecare

turn your face to the sun and the SHADOW fall behind you!

Shadownight2
204 posts 

4/30/2011 4:09 pm

SuleiI want you me in real not on your mind I would love that and love me foreveroppppsssss sowe just kidding

turn your face to the sun and the SHADOW fall behind you!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/30/2011 4:47 pm

    Quoting Shadownight2:
    Sulei hallo what a wonderful words in mindmmmmmmm..well the language of love come to our deepest heart..and if I say it I mean it..and I spoke comes from my heart not only from my mouthlove means,sincerity,purity,honesty,faithfulness.etc..etc.etc..but we need to Be true to our selves..like what I say in my blogtakecare
shadow i am glad u liked this blog even u dont agree with minds but hanks for ur comment!

Sulei
8042 posts 

4/30/2011 4:49 pm

    Quoting Shadownight2:
    SuleiI want you me in real not on your mind I would love that and love me foreveroppppsssss sowe just kidding
huh? u in real? shadow?

Shadownight2
204 posts 

4/30/2011 11:21 pm

    Quoting Sulei:
    huh? u in real? shadow?
YA WHY NOT IM NOT ENJOYING IF YOU REAPE ME IN MIND I WANT IS REAL WANNA BET?

turn your face to the sun and the SHADOW fall behind you!

Sulei
8042 posts 

5/1/2011 4:01 am

    Quoting Shadownight2:
    YA WHY NOT IM NOT ENJOYING IF YOU REAPE ME IN MIND I WANT IS REAL WANNA BET?
no no i wont bet, because i know u will win, shadow!

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